The Unlocked Door

Today’s verse: “My response is to get down on my knees before the Father, this magnificent Father who parcels out all heaven and earth. I ask him to strengthen you by his Spirit—not a brute strength but a glorious inner strength—that Christ will live in you as you open the door and invite him in. And I ask him that with both feet planted firmly on love, you'll be able to take in with all followers of Jesus the extravagant dimensions of Christ's love. Reach out and experience the breadth! Test its length! Plumb the depths! Rise to the heights! Live full lives, full in the fullness of God.” Ephesians 3:14-19 (The Message)

“The doors we open and close each day decide the lives we live.” --Flora Whittemore

Doors can sometimes be a headache. Especially when they are locked and you can’t get in. I’ll never forget the day that I had to call my husband to come with the extra car keys to help me get inside my van. There are three unusual facts that cause me to remember that particular day well. First, I had inadvertently (or lazily) left the “hide-a-key” inside the van because I had used it a few days earlier (Ggrrrr…those doors). Second, after calling my husband to come save me, I found my keys in the wrong pocket. Therefore having to call back and admit my stupidity. Thirdly, later that afternoon, I had to make another call to my man, and wait in the parking lot of the local grocery store with my groceries in the rain, because I had really locked my keys in the car that time.

Doors can sometimes be a headache. Especially when they are locked and you can’t get in.

The door I know that my children will never find locked is the one that leads straight into Jesus arms. All they have to do is open the door and invite Him in! God doesn’t want to make it difficult for them. Nor will He keep the door locked until they are perfect enough to make His acquaintance. He’s just waiting for them to answer his knock. A relationship with Jesus, God’s forgiveness, and eternal salvation begins by opening this one unlocked door.

“Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with him, and he with me.” Revelation 3:20

Open the door, babies!

My response today is get down on my knees before you Father, the magnificent Father who parcels out all heaven and earth. I ask you to strengthen Alyssa and Kyle by your Spirit—not with a brute strength but a glorious inner strength—that Christ will live in them as they open the door and invite you in. And I ask you Lord that with both feet planted firmly on love, they will be able to take in with all followers of Jesus the extravagant dimensions of your love. I pray that they reach out and experience the breadth! Test its length! Plumb the depths! Rise to the heights! Live full lives, full in the fullness of God..(Ephesians 3:14-19 The Message) I pray this with great expectancy and in full hope, giving you thanks and praise for loving my children that much!

The Fragrance of Christ

Photo taken by Alyssa--Pike's Market, Seattle, 2009

Today’s Verse: “In the Messiah, in Christ, God leads us from place to place in one perpetual victory parade. Through us, he brings knowledge of Christ. Everywhere we go, people breathe in the exquisite fragrance. Because of Christ, we give off a sweet scent rising to God, which is recognized by those on the way of salvation—an aroma redolent with life.” 2 Corinthians 2:14-16 (The Message)

A beautiful scripture yes?

In our Women’s Bible Study today we briefly reflected on the question posed to us in our video lesson, “When I walk into a room, can others smell the fragrance of Jesus on me?” Do I “give off a sweet scent rising to God”? Oh, I pray so.

As a child, I had a grandparent who smoked. We didn’t mind so much hanging out at his house, but the moment we would arrive home we would throw all of our clothes in the dirty laundry and jump in the shower. When I spent time with my grandpa, I smelled like my grandpa.

How I want my life to give the fragrance of Christ. Unfortunately, when I participate in things that are not of God, my attitude starts stinking like rotten potatoes. When I spend time with God, on the other hand, I start smelling like Him. Do my children “breathe in the exquisite fragrance” of God living in me? Oh, I pray so.

An even bigger question is will Alyssa and Kyle “give off a sweet scent”, proving their close proximity to the Father?

Oh, I pray so.

The Company I Keep
By Beth Moore
Let me be known by the company I keep
By the One who determines each day that I greet
From the moment I wake ‘til He rocks me to sleep
Let me be known by the company I keep!

Let me be known by the company I keep
When the valleys are low and the mountains are steep
By the One who holds fast when swift waters are deep
Let me be known by the company I keep!

Let me be known by the company I keep
By the One who implores me to sit at His feet
And quickens my soul to discern what is deep
Let me be known by the company I keep!

Let me be known by the company I keep
Eclipsed by Your presence that I may decrease
‘Til all You have chosen this traveler to meet
No longer see me but the Company I keep.
“Things Pondered” by Beth Moore, pg. 101

Oh Lord, what sweet company you are. You are kind, compassionate, slow to anger, and abounding in love. What a beautiful Spirit to abide in. I pray Lord, that as I rest in your precious presence, others will be able to smell your fragrant aroma living in me. As they follow my example, may my children fall in love with you, and find the joy it is to spend time in your presence. As they dig into your Word, may they learn the truth of who you are God, and begin to reflect you in their lives. I live with the hope that they smell of love, forgiveness, peace, hope, joy, compassion and mercy to the world around them, drawing others into your saving presence. Everywhere they go, may people breathe in the exquisite fragrance of you! Oh, I pray so!

Thankful Thursday: YIPPS

Today’s Verse: "Pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the saints." Ephesians 6:18

Today, I’m thankful for my Sunday night YIPPS group. YIPPS is an acronym for “Youth Intercessory Prayer Partners”. We are a group of parents/grandparents who are passionate about God’s work in the lives of our church and our children, and believe in the power of prayer. We gather together each Sunday evening, at the same time that our Jr. High and Sr. High youth groups are meeting, and we cover our youth, our youth leaders, and our youth activities in prayer.

As we meet together, I have great hope that God is very attentive to what is happening in this small back room on our church campus each Sunday night, and I look forward to seeing the ways He is going to be active in answering our prayers. I believe that God wants every heart of our youth to belong to Him, and that He wants to bless the hands of our youth leaders. How can our sweet time in prayer ever be a useless waste of time? I believe that it is one of the most important things I do each week.

So, here are some reasons I am thankful for YIPPS…

• There is nothing sweeter than hearing a parent pray for their child.
• It’s a huge blessing to hear someone else pray for my child.
• By asking our youth leaders how we can pray for them each week, I sense that they are encouraged in their role, and reminded of the importance of their ministry to our youth.
• We are an encouragement to the youth as we give them the opportunity to ask for prayer, and they know their concern is being lifted up in prayer.
• Seeing answers to some of the things we have prayed for is so awesome!
• Just knowing that God is pleased with what we are doing, and has a great plan for our youth, is the biggest blessing of all.

Thank you, Lord, for the wonderful people who join me each Sunday night in praying for the youth of our church. Thank you for the blessing it is to come together and spend time in your presence, coming to you on behalf of so many young lives that are sitting at a crossroads where they are choosing on a daily basis to follow you, or follow the world. Above all, I thank you for being the kind of God that hears our prayers, and cares about each thing we bring to you, big or small. Lord, continue to turn our youth closer to you, and bring them into a relationship with you that is vibrant, growing, and life changing. Bless our youth workers in their efforts to build relationships, plan fun times, and above all teach your Word in powerful ways. Stretch the hours in their week, protect their marriages and families, and provide all that they need to accomplish the task that you’ve given them. Lord, may my kids draw closer to you, and find what a joy it is to live their lives for you, by watching and listening to their youth leaders in action, and participating in such wonderful youth events. To this end I (and YIPPS) will keep on praying!

Addicted to Jesus

Alyssa--1996

Today’s verse: “Those who cling to worthless idols forfeit the grace that could be theirs.” Jonah 2:8

When Alyssa was little she had a desperate addiction to her binky…or should I say “binkies”. It began the day after she was born, and continued on until her 3rd birthday, when we wrapped them up in a pretty package and mailed them off to some other baby who needed them.

Often Alyssa would have more than one binky in her possession at any one given time. One in her mouth, and one in her hand, ready for a swap when the one in her mouth became to “warm”. Alyssa even had them named. There was “cow binky”, “train binky”, and “pink binky” and one of them was always close by. The comfort they gave when she was tired or hurt is immeasurable, and breaking the addiction was long and torturous. For her, and for me!

Though the binky was a non-life threatening thing that brought comfort when the kids were little (Kyle had an addiction as well), there will be other things that they may look to in their lives, as they get older, to give comfort or fill the deeper needs in their souls. They could look to big things like drugs, alcohol, gambling, or pornography…or even things as “simple” as food or shopping. Addictions can be easily formed to many things, as they look for happiness, peace, or contentment.

I pray that my children’s only addiction in life is God. God is truly the only answer! He is the only one who can give true happiness. He is the only one to fill every empty space. He alone can meet our every need. May He be their addiction of choice!

Lord, you are the Filler of all our needs. You fill all the empty spaces of our hearts. I pray, Father, that my kids will never look to other things to replace what only you can do. Where they need to feel love, peace, comfort, and pleasure, may they look to you. I pray that they never grab onto anything that is harmful in their lives, and expect it to bring happiness. Protect them from the pressure of smoking, drinking, drugs, pornography, gambling…all those things that can easily become dangerous addictions, and cause harm in their lives. When/if they are tempted, may you give them the power to say “no”, and help them fix their eyes on you.

I Love My Man!

Today’s verse: “Each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.” Ephesians 5:33

Yesterday, my hubby came home, and handed me a brand new book written by my favorite author. How sweet is that? I felt truly loved.

My dear man is a romantic at heart, and is very thoughtful to show his love for me in so many ways! God has blessed me! Sometimes I take that for granted, and forget to give God thanks enough.

My hubby shows me love when…

• He kisses me good-bye in the morning.
• He brings home my favorite coffee drink.
• He takes the time to call me on the phone during his busy day.
• He schedules date time on a regular basis.
• He empties the dishwasher, switches the laundry loads, or makes the bed, when he sees that it needs to be done.
• He helps with the dishes after dinner.
• He wraps his arms around me and gives me a hug.
• He listens to my feelings and tries to understand.
• He works hard to provide for his family, and takes care of the bills.
• He watches chick-flicks with me…and buys my favorite movie treat!
• He opens my door before I get into the car.
• He is my amazing fix-it man, and nothing is left undone for long in our home.
• He spends important dad-time with the kids.

Oh, the list can go on and on. My man shows me love in so many ways, and shows it every day. I am a blessed woman.

I am reminded today to pray that my son will be like his dad when he grows up, and that he will be a true blessing to his wife and children someday. I pray that he is not only respectful and kind to his wife, but that he will show her his love in special ways that speaks to her heart. I pray that his marriage will be one centered on God, and radiates His presence in their lives.

Some of the things that show love won’t necessarily come naturally to Kyle, but he has a tremendous example in his father. I pray that his eyes are watching closely!

Lord, I’m so thankful for my dear man, and know that you chose him just for me. Thank you for the many ways he shows me love on a daily basis. Please forgive me for the times I forget to be thankful. Thank you for his generous spirit, his work hard attitude, and even his intention to be romantic. I am truly blessed. I pray, Lord, that Kyle will follow in his father’s footsteps, and be a good boyfriend, husband, and father. I pray that he respects and loves the woman you bring into his life. May his desire be to work hard to provide for his family in a job that he loves. When he has a wife, may he keep the romance alive, and work hard to show her love on a daily basis, never giving up on her when times get hard. I pray that he strives to be the man you have made him to be, and that you shine in him through all he says and does. Marriage is hard work, but it is also a gift. I pray that Kyle finds the gift you have for him in having a beautiful marriage.

"It's My Day"

Good times together--2005

Today’s verse: “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.” Romans 12:10

Since the kids were little, we’ve had “rule” in our house to help curb the sibling fighting over such important things as where we are going to lunch, where we sit in the van, who gets first pick of what to watch on television, etc. You know, the life changing, highly intense decisions and benefits that come when you’re a kid. All I have to ask is “whose day is it?” and more often than not any discussion that has been going on, immediately stops, and the argument is settled. This “rule” has been a lifesaver many times over the years. Alyssa has the odd days of the month, and Kyle the even. It’s as easy as pie.

Recently, however, I found it has a downside as well. The kids don’t use the “rule” much anymore unless it somehow benefits themselves in an argument that cannot be settled otherwise, and advances their rights and fulfills their desires. Forgetting that they can be polite. Forgetting that they don’t always get what they want when they want it. Even forgetting the person in whom they are walking over is also a person with feelings, wants, and desires. All thoughts of kindness fly out the window by the time they decide to bring up that it’s “my day”.

Not only am I reminded to pray for my kid’s relationship together, as brother and sister, but I am prompted to pray for their thoughtfulness towards others. Hopefully one day soon, they will grow out of this selfish “it’s all about me” phase of their life, and become people who care for others above themselves. I pray that they will sense someone else’s needs and wants, being compassionate and kind, and putting others first.

One day, this funky “rule” will leave our home, though it was a godsend when the kids were little, and kindness will take over, and I will be able to say “It’s MY day!” It will be my day to give God thanks that my kids have grown up and are becoming beautiful, selfless, and giving individuals…even to their brother, and even to their sister.

Oh, what a day or rejoicing that will be!

Lord, thank you for my precious children! Thank you for their passions, their gifts, and their uniqueness. They are different in so many ways, and yet each reflect You in beautiful ways. I pray for their relationship as sister and brother, and ask that nothing separates them from each other, always remaining friends. I pray that they allow forgiveness to flow freely with one another. May arguments, or disappointments in one another, never be a defining moment of brokenness in their relationship. Lord, help them to be full of kindness, compassion, and love for one another, and putting the other first when it’s needed. Give each of them a heart that looks to the interest of the other first, and gives honor and respect. Replace their need to take care of themselves, and be first, or have the best, with thoughts of putting others ahead of themselves, and therefore being like Christ. May they shine you, in all that they say and do…especially with each other.

God is Truth

Today’s verse: “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” --Philippians 4:8

In our Women’s Bible Study at church, we are going through the book “Me, Myself, and Lies” by Jennifer Rothschild. It’s a powerful look at the thoughts that we hold onto and believe, and that live in our thought closets on a daily basis, and learning whether or not they are based on God’s truth. There are so many lies that we beat ourselves up with, and we treat it like a tape recorder on automatic rewind. Over and over again we feed ourselves things that are not truth, and we fail to live in the freedom and truth of God’s Word.

I love this quote from our workbook…
“When we meditate on God’s wonders and Word, we have little room in our thought closet for anything else! We enjoy a thought closet stocked with truth. My friend, what you tuck into your thought closet will become the wardrobe of your life.” (“Me, Myself, & Lies” by Jennifer Rothschild, page 22)

It’s so easy to live focused on lies. The lies that say we are ugly, unloved, inadequate, unkind, impatient, unwanted, unforgivable, lazy, dumb, fat…the list goes on, and on, and on. Instead we need to fill our hearts, minds and souls with the truth. His infallible truth.

I’m not sure what untruth my kids hold in their hearts and minds, but I pray that where there are lies, God will replace it with His truth. I want the wardrobe of their lives to be filled with all that God truly believes about them. I hope they hold on to the truth that they ARE loved, gifted, adequate, and beautiful child of God.

May God’s voice of Truth be the loudest of all.

Lord, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable – if anything is excellent or worthy of praise – I pray that my kids think about such things. Replace the lies they are beginning to believe about themselves, and replace it with your truth. Take the untruths and replace them with your Word, covering them with a wardrobe of your deep, deep love. Where they feel unlovely, extend a confidence that you have made them in wonderful ways. Where they feel inadequate, remind them of their great worth in you, and the purpose you have created them for. Where they feel unloved, reveal to them the depth to which you loved when you sent your Son to die on a cross. Lord, you are truth. Fill my children with you

Boise State Broncos and Jesus

Today’s verse: “That if you confess with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord," and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.” Romans 10:9

You’re probably wondering what the Boise State Broncos have to do with Jesus. My husband claims all the time that God is the biggest Bronco fan ever. He knows this because the most beautiful sunsets are blue and orange.

Yes, my man thinks he is funny! Ha!

We live in Boise State heaven. Everywhere you turn, there is blue and orange. Cars are decked with flags, stickers, and license plates. Businesses have their BSU cheer on their signs and windows. Young and old, men or women, all are decked out in their BSU gear. Everyone screaming to the world who they are rooting for! Who would have thought that blue and orange would be such popular colors?

Then when you go to an actual Boise State football game, you are bombarded with blue and orange overload. You can really tell a semi-fan from a real FAN, if you know what I mean. Painted faces or bodies, beads, horns, and crazy hats all showing which team they are siding with. As you can tell by the following picture, my boy falls in the category of a real FAN!

Kyle--2005

My deepest prayer is that my children will be just as big of fans for Jesus Christ. That they will shout as loud for Him, as they do the Boise State Broncos. I pray that the way they dress, the activities they participate in, and the words they say, all represent whose team they are really on. May they be the biggest cheerleaders on God’s team!

Lord, I pray that my children live their lives representing your team. May they confess with their mouth that you are their Lord, and believe in their hearts that you are God! I pray that the gift of your salvation becomes their own, and that they live their lives rooting for the right team. May they go all out in their love for you, showing the world their excitement and passion for you. There’s no greater thing in this world that I desire for my children, than that of hem being Your child!

There's a big game tonight. Boise State plays Hawaii and the game doesn't begin here until 9:00 pm. I asked the boys if they were staying up tonight to watch the game, considering we have church early in the morning, and they looked at me like I had lost my mind. So, Go Broncos!!!

The Beauty and the Hair

Today’s verse: “The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.” 1 Samuel 16:7

One of the biggest mother-daughter struggles that Alyssa and I have encountered so far, happened approximately when Alyssa was between the ages of 3 and 8 (age 8 because somewhere around that age, I finally gave up). Looking back, I think that we both had strong-willed sides. Often we would both loose in the argument, each of us disheartened by our interactions together. What were our wars over you ask? Hair. Yes, I hate to admit it, we fought over her hair.

If I wanted it curled, she wanted it straight.
If I planned ponytails, she demanded a pigtail.
If I wished for ribbons, she wanted barretts.
We always faced a difference of opinion.

The most memorable hair-moment, wasn’t too big of a battle face-to-face, but there was a definite winner and loser. The day is firm in my memory because it was the day of the children’s Christmas program at our church, and I was helping direct the big affair. It’s every mother’s dream, to see her baby girl shine on stage, looking as darling as can be! So, the night before the big day, I had put sponge rollers in Alyssa’s hair, to make her naturally straight hair full of cute curls. Well, they must have not been so cute to Alyssa.

As I spent the afternoon at the church, making the final preparations for the Christmas program, Ken helped by staying home to watch the kids, keeping them out of my hair. Next thing I know, my dear hubby is coming to visit me at the church, with a look on his face like something was very wrong. He had to break the news that while he was watching the football game, Alyssa decided she didn’t want the curls in her hair anymore, and proceeded to dunk her hair in the bathroom sink. The cute curls were gone. Alyssa had won.

In all seriousness, I look back and think some of our arguments over hair were silly. It’s just hair. I would hope that if I were to do those years all over again, I would be less intense at making sure Alyssa’s hair was what I wanted it to be…especially on Sunday mornings. Alyssa’s hair wasn’t what made her beautiful, it was her heart.

Now that Alyssa is a teenager, she is in charge of her own hair, and we don’t fight over how it’s fixed. Whew. I hope that as she continues to grow that she remains opinionated about what she finds beautiful for herself, and that she stands confident in the beauty that emanates from her heart. I’m not sure she knows how to respond when I compliment her, and I also know that we all have things we don’t like about ourselves. I pray that wherever she has doubts, or a low opinion of herself, that it is replaced with a confidence in who God has created her, and that she believes in her heart that she IS beautiful.

Christ lives inside her. What could be more beautiful?

Dear Precious Father, thank you for my daughter, and for the beautiful girl you have made her. Inside, and out, she shines of her Creator. She is fearfully and wonderfully made. Not only is she beautiful on the outside, but I see beauty emanating from who she is. Her laughter makes her face radiate. Her creative flair brings out a confidence in who you’ve made her. She’s loyal to her friends, a delight to little ones, and brings joy to her family. Everything about my daughter shines a beauty. I pray, Lord, that she believes in her heart that she is beautiful, and that she accepts the way you have created her, even in the areas she feels inadequate. Lord, I pray she never doubts her natural beauty, but also rests in the fact that it’s what is on the inside that is most beautiful. She will be most beautiful when you are living in her heart.

Thankful Thursday: The Family of God

Part of our Church family..."Girls on the Rock" Luau...2008

Today’s verse: “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.” Hebrews 10:24-25

As I thought about what I’m thankful for today, my mind immediately jumped to the big role our church plays in my life, and the life of our family. The list of blessings is long, and I just want to be faithful to give God thanks.

• When my children were little, our weekly Mom’s play group, was the one thing that helped me survive week-to-week. Friendships were built and I often gained wisdom and encouragement from the other moms.

• Women’s Bible Study came along and the relationships I have built there have been a treasure. Our times together in His Word have brought much encouragement, and has helped me grow deeper in my spiritual walk. I have drawn closer to God, and have learned to lean heavily on Him when parenting is a challenge. I couldn’t do it without God by my side!

• From their first Sunday school classes, Alyssa and Kyle have been taught that Jesus loves them! Seeds have been planted in their hearts to follow Jesus with their lives from the first moment they entered the nursery. Story by story, and verse by verse, they’ve been taught the most important lessons of life.

• Now today, Alyssa and Kyle have amazing youth leaders, who continue to teach them, guide them, and encourage them in their walks with the Lord. These leaders have such a powerful influence on my kids, and show them love in so many ways. I know that my kid’s lives are better off for having these special people walking beside them.

• Being pastor’s kids is not always an easy thing to be, but our church loves and supports our kids in many precious ways. I remember years where there were special Pastor Appreciation gifts, or Christmas gifts, just for Alyssa and Kyle. They were reminded of how much the church body prayed for them, and loved having them as part of the church. I’m thankful for the many people who take the time to pray for my kids, talk to them, and invest time in them.

• This summer our church gave our family 12 weeks off to enjoy some uninterrupted time together. Though we missed them greatly, our family was left with many memories we will hold onto for a lifetime, and feel much more rested and able to be effective in our ministry.

• Our church loves us, accepts us, forgives us, and prods us to draw closer to God. What a beautiful family!

Parenting would be so much harder without the support of the people in my church. They spur me on in so many ways. What a gift to give God thanks for today!

Lord, you have blessed our family abundantly with a precious church family. What a gift it is to have been in this church for the last 15 years. They have walked with us, in this journey as parents, since our children were born. I’m thankful that they pray for us, encourage us, and help us draw closer to Him. I’m thankful that there are so many people a part of “growing up my children in the way they should go”, and leading them into a lifelong relationship with Jesus. They have been faithful seed-planters! Lord, help my children fall in love with the church, and stay connected with other believers, for the rest of their life. As they grow up, may they be reminded of all the blessings there are being connected to a church family.

Lord, Bridge the Gap

Today’s verse: "The LORD will guide you always; he will satisfy your needs in a sun-scorched land and will strengthen your frame. You will be like a well-watered garden, like a spring whose waters never fail.” Isaiah 58:11

I love to read. Though it is not my prayer focus today in my blog, I do pray that my kids fall in love with reading someday. My husband doesn’t quite have the same thrill as I do walking into “Barnes and Noble” or the Christian bookstore either. I pray for him too. Ha!

Christian fiction is often my “flavor” of choice, and mostly I just read for enjoyment. However, sometimes God surprises me with an important lesson within the story. One book in particular has stuck with me and I think about it often. A friend and I even talked about it over coffee today. The book is called “Tristan’s Gap” by Nancy Rue, and I’d highly recommend it for any mother.

I won’t go into the storyline of this book. You’ll have to just have to go and read it yourself. Who knows, maybe God will speak to you too. The theme that had such an impact on me is based on one of the best pieces of advise that the author was given when her children were young: “Pray that God will bridge the gap between what your child needs and what you can give her.”

There are many areas, known and unknown to me, in which I need God to fill in the gaps of my parenting capabilities. No matter how hard I try, I will never be able to provide for all of my children’s needs. I cannot protect them from every hurt. I won’t be able to fulfill every desire. I will never be able to be with them in every crisis. I will be unable to meet every need that they have physically, emotionally, and for sure spiritually. So, I am on me knees, dependent and hopeful that God will take care of all the things that I cannot.

I need God to help me be the best parent I can be, but I also need Him to “bridge the gap” between what my children need and what I can actually give them! What a hope to hold on to!

Lord, thank you for my children, and for the gift they are in my life. But, Lord, sometimes parenting is hard, and I need you to guide me, strengthen me, and help me in those times where I seem to fail. My kids have so many needs, and some I can fill and some I cannot. I’m so glad that I don’t have to parent alone. You are with me. Please, Lord, bridge the gaps between what my kids need, and what I can actually give them. Where I am not enough, take over and fill in the blanks. Lord, I stand in faith, believing in your promise to satisfy our needs, and strengthen our frames. Oh, how I pray you do that for me as a parent to my children, and for my children in their lives. Lord, guide us always.

The Biggest Catch of All

Today’s verse: “Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart.” Psalm 37:4

My boys love to fish. I can’t say that I totally understand, but I do love to see the joy on their faces when they come home with a good catch. Now sitting in my chair along the river, reading my book, “hooking” a grand story line and a happy ending, is MY kind of fishing.

Kyle (and probably his dad too) gets so thrilled when a fishing trip is planned that he often finds it hard to get to sleep the night before. It doesn’t matter how early they have to get up, or how far they have to drive, Kyle is ready to go! He’s on fire to go get those fish and has great aspirations to beat his dad in the number of fish he gets, and in the size of the fish. You go, Kyle!

Back in 2005, when Kyle was eight years old, he was so excited about the opportunity to go fishing with his friend Luke. It didn’t matter that they were driving 3 hours away, he just wanted to catch a fish. Before heading to bed the night before the big trip, he and his dad, prayed that their trip would be fruitful.

After they arrived to the “best fishing hole ever”, they pulled out their poles, hooked on the worms, and began the big hunt. They caught a few little fish here and there, but Kyle was hoping for something a bit bigger. He waited and waited for the big catch of the day. After some time, Kyle’s pole gave a big jerk, and on the other end of the line was the biggest fish he had ever caught.

As soon as the “big one” was landed, Kyle shared with his dad, that as he sat there waiting, he began to pray to God for a bigger fish. At the exact moment he was praying, some poor fish thought he would eat a worm for lunch.

God had answered his prayers.

Kyle and his big catch--2005

Sure, it may be a little thing (you know, it was just a fish), but I believe it’s a BIG reminder of how great our God is! My hope is that it taught my son a lesson he will remember for the rest of his life. God hears, and God answers, when we pray. If Kyle can grasp that truth about God now, he will be ready to take the bigger things in life and entrust them to His care, asking Him to cover his needs, hopes, and fears.

The other thing I hope Kyle never forgets, is that God doesn’t just answer the “important prayers”, but He wants to shower us with the desires of our hearts. He doesn’t just take care of our needs, but desires to fulfill our wants too. What an amazing God!

Lord, what an amazing God you are! Not only do you provide for our needs, but you also shower us with blessing and give us the desires of our hearts when we delight ourselves in you. I pray that my children delight themselves in you. I pray that they learn that prayer is vital in their relationship with you. It is their opportunity to speak to you about the concerns of their heart, and you hear them when they come to you. Prayer is also the way they get to know you better, and hear your heart. Lord, may Alyssa and Kyle always remember that you are God, and that you love them deeply, May they know that they can come to you with their needs, and share with you their desires, and you will hear their prayers. Lord, thank you for loving us that much!

Avoiding the Comparison Game

Today’s verse: “Make a careful exploration of who you are and the work you have been given, and then sink yourself into that. Don't be impressed with yourself. Don't compare yourself with others. Each of you must take responsibility for doing the creative best you can with your own life.” Galatians 6:4-5 (The Message)

Another school week begins. My kids just finished their fall break and have enjoyed the last week off of school. Now we are heading back into the weekly grind of getting up early, going to school, and the onslaught of homework. Ready or not, here we come.

There can be a lot of pressure for kids at school. They face a wide range of pressures: to have the best grades, wear the coolest clothes, have the best gadget, be the most popular friend, or even earn the “student of the month” before anyone else does. Striving, pushing, worrying, comparing. All on a daily basis.

Even though God created us each with particular strengths, it’s all too easy to instead focus on our weaknesses, and to wish we had someone else’s giftedness. I love the reminder of the scripture I have chosen today. Paraphrased in my own words… “Don’t play the comparison game, just do your best.”

I pray that as my kids head out the door for another week of school, that they find joy in who God has created them to be, and that they take pleasure in their God-given strengths. I pray that they find contentment in who they are rather than focusing on comparisons. I hope they find the confidence to believe in themselves, recognize and celebrate their strengths, and at the same time have the courage to rejoice in someone else’s differences.

Go out and be the best that YOU can be, my dear ones!

Lord Jesus, thank you for my precious kid, and the way you have beautifully made them. Thank you for their areas of strength and giftedness, and the way that you’ve made each one unique and special. I even rejoice in their areas of weakness because that is where they will be caused to look to you for power, strength and the help to change or improve themselves. I pray that they rejoice in who you have created them, celebrate their differences, and go out in the world and be the best that they can be. Lord, I give you praise because they are fearfully and wonderfully made!

God our Master Planner

Kyle and his best friend Jake--2005

Today’s verse: “O LORD, you are my God; I will exalt you and praise your name, for in perfect faithfulness you have done marvelous things, things planned long ago.” Isaiah 25:1

I often wonder what my kids will be like when they grow up. Will they be successful in their jobs? Will they be a part of changing society or people’s lives for the better? What will their lives hold? Only God knows for sure.

A few years ago we asked Kyle, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” and his reply still gives me the chuckles when I think about it. He boldly replied, “I want to be a professional baseball player, or a worker at McDonalds.” Come to find out, McDonalds was in the running because he figured he would get free food. Well, let’s hope that of the two choices, he becomes a professional baseball player…that way, he can buy all the cheeseburgers he wants!

He's on his way to being a professional!
12 year old State Champions--2009

I know, without a shadow of doubt, that God has a marvelous plan for my children’s lives. He offers them a future and a hope. He’s created them for something spectacular, and I just can’t wait to see what unfolds as they begin to find their passions, think about higher learning, and make decisions in regards to their careers. I pray that they will always seek God for guidance, and desire to follow His plan for their lives.

Where His plan leads, nobody knows. But what I DO know? It’s sure gonna be good!

Dear Master Planner, and Precious Lord, I believe, with all that I am, that you have something spectacular planned for my children’s lives. You have all their days planned out for them, and have created them in wonderful ways, for wonderful things. I praise you for making them in such beautiful ways, with special gifts, and for specific purposes. They are a part of your plan, and I know that your plan is good. I pray, Lord, that my kids will always seek after you, and follow your plans for their lives. I pray that they find your calling on their lives, and follow it with all their hearts. May their lives glorify you in all that they say and do, and in how they live their lives, from now until the end of their days.

PS...Happy Birthday to my mom! You're the best Grammy in the world! Love you!

Making it their Own

Today’s verse: “Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy, for you are receiving the goal of your faith, the salvation of your souls.” 1 Peter 1:8-9

Mother's Day 1994

Alyssa was born on a Thursday, and in church on the very next Sunday. She was three days old, and it was Mother’s Day. What a way to celebrate my first official Mother’s Day as a mom! To top it off, my own mom, now a Grammy, was there too! What fun we had on Alyssa’s first Sunday in church.

Kyle was born on a Tuesday, and in church on the very next Sunday. He was five days old and got to experience his first of many Sundays in church. That day was a blur, but I’m sure it was one of celebration as well.

My kids haven’t missed many Sundays of church since they were born. It’s tough when you’re the Pastor’s kid. Church is just a “normal” thing in their lives. It’s never a question as to whether or not we are going to church on Sunday morning, or where we are going to church. Church just is.

As we took a 12-week sabbatical from our church this summer, I realized that my children love their church just as much as their parents do. I’m so thankful that my kids don’t find it a drudgery to go to church every Sunday. Sure, their biggest reason for loving church right now might be their friends, but they are also instilling in their lives a habit of worshipping God on Sundays, and know the importance of church in our lives.

One day, my kids will leave home and have to face the decision themselves as to whether or not church is an important thing to be a part of and attend on Sunday mornings. They will also have to choose for themselves whether or not they will use their gifts and minister in that church, or just be bystanders. And even more importantly, one day soon, they will have to choose whether or not to follow God with all their heart. Not because their parents do, but because they believe in Him themselves. They will have to choose faith for themselves.

And just because they are “PK’s”, and have grown up in the church, doesn’t mean they will walk down the same path as their parents. But, oh how I pray so.

Lord, I pray that my children fall in love with you and follow you all the days of their lives. I pray that they work out their salvation, and that it becomes their own in precious ways. They have grown up in church, and have heard You Word since they were just days old, and I pray that those seeds that have been planted in their hearts grow into deep roots, and a firm foundation, in You. I pray that they believe you, Lord, with all that they are, and choose to serve you all the days of their lives. Take what they have heard as children, and make it alive and active in their lives today, and as they become adults. May they choose today whom they will serve…and may it be You!

Pass the Pledge

Today’s verse: “Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.” Psalm 51:10


It’s amazing how housework can give you some great spiritual insights. Too bad it wasn’t fun at the same time.

This morning as I stood in the kitchen, and the beautiful sunshine was beaming through my windows, I noticed how long it’s been since I have dusted my furniture and cleaned my windows. The sunlight so nicely emphasized the thick layer of grime everywhere. My house looks so much cleaner in the dark, and it’s a whole lot easier to ignore.

The light makes clear the areas in which need cleaning.

My prayer today, as my kids are getting older and older, is that God’s light shines in their lives in such a way that it gives them a clear picture of the things that don’t belong and need to be cleaned-up. May God’s spirit shine in the nooks and crannies of their heart and help them make good choices in their friends, habits, language, entertainment, and in all of life, so that they reflect Him instead of the grime. I want them to be “spotless” and clean.

We can take the analogy further, and know with faith, that God is the ultimate “Windex” and “Pledge”, and will wipe away the smudges left behind from our wrong choices. He makes us clean. God is good! Amen.

Lord, please shine your Light in my dear children’s lives, enlightening them to the areas in their lives that don’t reflect you. Gently prod them in the right direction when they are leaning towards making wrong choices. I pray that the window of their hearts remain clear and clean, spotless from any grime left behind from sin. Lord, let your Spirit be their guide. Clean their hearts, and renew a right spirit in them!

Thankful Thursday: Laundry Lessons

Today’s verse: “For the dead cannot praise you; they cannot raise their voices in praise. Those who go down to the grave can no longer hope in your faithfulness. Only the living can praise you as I do today. Each generation tells of your faithfulness to the next.” Isaiah 38:18-19 (NLT)


This is the first day since I started my blog that I have missed writing a prayer, and I thought about it often today. It’s been a crazy busy week. I am just now sitting down for the day, with my feet up and munching on a bowl full of popcorn. All the while contemplating what I’m thankful for on this Thursday.

Laundry has been just one of the items on my busy agenda over the last two days. I have this weird fascination of doing all my laundry in one day, and to not put any of it away until I can see it all, in its entirety, neatly folded on my bed. I find some sense of accomplishment seeing it all in piles, organized by individual family members, and knowing there is not an item of clothing left in the laundry baskets. The discouraging part of this process is that the empty laundry baskets don’t stay empty for very long. What wondrous satisfaction can be found at the end of a laundry day.

This week…the laundry took me TWO days. What? Did everyone where 3 outfits each day this last week?! Besides just lots of clothes, the dryer seemed extra slow. What do I expect after 15 years of good service? I wonder how many loads that dryer has dried in its lifetime in the Redford household. Maybe I don’t really want to know.

So, you’re probably wondering what I'm thankful for today. I had much time to contemplate that question as I folded, folded, and folded more laundry.

• All of my kid’s clothes reminded me to be thankful for their health, and their ability to play sports, go to school, and do things in life that get their clothes dirty.
• I’m thankful for God’s provision to provide for those clothes. A husband who works hard to “bring home the bacon”, and friends who pass along such wonderful hand-me-downs.
• I’m thankful for the washer and dryer that make my work easier, and that they have lasted a good long 15 years, with life still in them.
• I’m thankful for kids who dress modestly and with care and pride.
• And believe it or not, I am thankful for MY health and that I could actually do the laundry. Ha!

I’m sure there’s more, but there’s laundry to be put away! A mother’s job is never done.

Dear Lord, thank you for the reminder my laundry gave me today. So, many things to give you thanks for. Even in the work of providing my family with clean clothes. Thank you for my kid’s health above all. You are the giver of life, of their abilities, and of all our provisions, and I give you praise.

The Courage to say "I Can"

Sister Christine, Great Grandma Re, baby cousin,& Me (5 or 6 years old approx.)

Today’s verse: “I can do everything through him who gives me strength.” Philippians 4:13

Once upon a time there was...

• …a little girl who never thought she’d feel comfortable talking to people one-on-one, much less become a pastor’s wife who talks to everyone
• …a little girl who never expected to leave the safety of teaching children, and begin teaching adults instead
• …a little girl who never dreamed she would lead worship at church
• …a little girl who never imagined being asked to preach a sermon or speak at a retreat
• …a little girl who never believed in herself.

BUT…
God had different plans.
God makes all things possible.
God has made something beautiful out of my life.

I pray that when my kids face things in their life where they respond with “I can’t” or “I never will”, that God touches their life in such a way that it gives them the courage to say “I can” and “I will.” What an exciting adventure they will be on when they choose to go wherever God leads, no matter their fears, inadequacies, and roadblocks. I believe that God has great plans for my kids, and will not give them anything they cannot handle…as long as they depend on Christ for all that they need.

Courage is being willing to follow God no matter where He leads, and depending on Him each step of the way!

Lord, I pray that you instill big dreams in my children, no matter their fears and doubts. Guide them in overcoming the obstacles that they place in their own path, and fill them with courage, hope, and imagination to reach beyond their assumed capabilities. Precious Father, empower them to believe in themselves, and not only that, but to believe in You for your presence and strength. May they not live with a spirit of timidity, but live out in a spirit of power, love and self-discipline. You have great plans for them, Lord, and I pray they live their lives trusting in that promise. You are a good God, and I give you praise and thanks in advance for the work you’ll do in my children’s lives. And I also thank you for what you’ve done in mine.

Investing in Family

Today’s verse: “The LORD your God will circumcise your hearts and the hearts of your descendants, so that you may love him with all your heart and with all your soul, and live.” Deuteronomy 30:6

Piersall/Hibbs Family Reunion 2002--
I think I can count 6 family members who have gone to
be with the Lord since this picture was taken.

Yesterday we went to a family funeral. My mother’s cousin passed away last week and we went to join in the celebration of his life. It was a beautiful tribute to a man who loved Jesus! There is much sadness for a life that has ended too soon, but all in all his family and friends celebrated a life well lived and a much awaited heavenly home-going. Oh, to be singing with the angels in heaven!

I was reminded today of how precious family is, and how easy it is to let time pass and busy schedules overtake life, that we don’t invest in the things that are truly important. There were many family members there today that I’ve seen only once or twice in the last 20 years, and some I see only when a family wedding or funeral comes around. Even some who live only thirty minutes away. Family is a gift that we sometimes take for granted. And soon they are gone before we even know it.

I pray that my kids become investors in family relationships, and that they realize the importance of the people God has placed in their lives. They have a rich heritage of faith that deserves to be treasured, protected, and pursued…no matter the work, the cost, or the effort it takes.

Families are God’s gift to us, and I thank Him for mine today.

Lord, what a heritage of faithful believers you have blessed my children with. I don’t know that I understood what a precious gift I had until I was older. Thank you for great-grandparents, grandparents, parents, aunts and uncles, and cousins who love/loved the Lord. I pray that my kids realize what a treasure they have, and they find relationships within our family that encourages them in their faith, that bring them joy, and fills them with an abundant love. And in turn, may they become benefactors of forgiveness, laughter, and love, and instigators of building relationships. Life is more beautiful with family members that love and serve you, and I give you thanks for the gift they are in my life.

Go for the "A"!

Today’s verse: “Servants, do what you're told by your earthly masters. And don't just do the minimum that will get you by. Do your best. Work from the heart for your real Master, for God, confident that you'll get paid in full when you come into your inheritance. Keep in mind always that the ultimate Master you're serving is Christ. The sullen servant who does shoddy work will be held responsible. Being a follower of Jesus doesn't cover up bad work.” Colossians 3:22-25 (The Message)

One of my funniest memories of Alyssa in the fourth grade was when she came home from school with her first week of spelling homework. She announces to me that she can do three assignments if she wants an “A” in spelling, or two assignments if she wants a “B”, and last but not least, if she does one assignment she could get a “C”. And she then proceeds to tell me, “Mom, I’m satisfied with a ‘C’, so I’m only going to do one of my assignments.” I about fell off my chair. I was sure to go have a talk with her teacher to confirm if this was exactly what she said, but I also had a chat with my daughter about doing her absolute best at all times.

I like how “The Message” says it in Colossians, “Don’t just do the minimum that will get you by. Do your best.” Though homework and schoolwork is of top priority in this department, I pray that my kids live by this philosophy in all that they do. When they clean their rooms, study for Bible Quizzing, mow the lawn, build friendships, play sports, and serve in the church. I hope and pray that they keep in mind WHO they are really serving, and work at it with all that they are. No second-bests. No procrastination. No mediocre-ness. “Work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men,” (Colossians 3:23 NIV)

No “C”s in life, when the “A” is within your power to reach, dear ones.

Precious Lord, thank you for my kids, and thank you for their ability to learn, think, and work hard. I pray that they always apply themselves to the fullest in all that they do. In school, I pray that they work hard to do their best work. Not to earn the perfect “A” grade, but so that they have a sense of doing the best that they can. In the church, or in serving others, I pray that each of my children will work from the heart, knowing they are doing it as an act of worship to You. Remove their laziness, timidity, and contentment to be just “okay”, but instill in them a passion to live in ways that shine You living in their lives. I pray that in all that my kids do, they glorify you, dear Jesus, using their gifts, talents and abilities, in the way you’ve designed them to be.

God is our Shepherd

Today’s verse: “He tends his flock like a shepherd: He gathers the lambs in his arms and carries them close to his heart; he gently leads those that have young.” Isaiah 40:11

Lord, I come to you, in all faith and hope, believing in the assurance that you are the great Shepherd. I am believing that my children are a part of your flock. What a precious place to be. I rest in the promise that You carry them close to your heart, and protect them in the safety of your arms. Thank you, for providing them with a place of belonging, and a home in your presence. If they ever walk away, or leave your flock, please tenderly seek them out and guide them back home. I thank you, that you will never give up on them. As my children’s mom, I praise you for your love and leading, in my own life. May I always look to you for wisdom, strength, and guidance as I parent, and accept your gentle hand of shepherding. Lord, there is no better way for me to parent, than to trust in you as my Shepherd.

Thirst for the Living Water

Taken by Alyssa, September 2009

Today’s verse: Jesus answered, "Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks the water I give him will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life." John 4:13-14

thirst (thûrst)
1. A sensation of dryness in the mouth and throat related to a need or desire to drink.
2. An insistent desire; a craving

We all thirst for something to make us happy, but only some of us find the one thing to fill that craving. We think that popularity, success, money, or love will give us fulfillment and satisfy our deepest desires. We strive to make more money, buy bigger houses, or bigger toys, yet we are left empty.

I see this in my kids sometimes. They want the next newest gadget, or the cool clothes, but once they have somehow found their “greatest heart desire”, they find something else they “need.” E-bay and Craigslist in their best friend in being able to accomplish the upgrades. The cravings live on.

Before my kids get too much older, and the cravings get bigger/deeper, I pray that they find the one thing that truly fulfills the emptiness in the depths of their soul. I pray that they are not tempted to fill this thirst with drugs, sex, pornography, gambling, or alcohol, or things that lead them away from God. Instead, I hope they seek out Christ, the Living Water.

If they thirst for something, may they thirst for Christ, all the days of their lives!

Lord, You are the Living Water, and you quench the thirsts we each have in the depths of our souls. I pray that when my kids sense longings or emptiness that they turn their eyes towards you to be all that they need. You are their wellspring of life, and their eternal life. You are their salvation. You are the greatest answer for all their needs. I pray that they will seek you, and they will find you, all the days of their lives. Lord, thank you for the gift of your Son, and the gift of your salvation. May we always live thirsting for more of you!

Peace that Passes All Understanding

Today’s verse: “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:6-7

As we were heading to Alyssa’s last volleyball game the other night, Grammy asked Alyssa if she was nervous about the game. Alyssa responded with a confident “nope”. Then we asked her if she has ever been nervous before a game, and she replied, “Only before the first game.”

So we further questioned Alyssa, “Do you get nervous before having to give a speech at school?” In which Alyssa replied “Nope, but I did the first time.” Even late last night, way passed her bedtime, Alyssa was working on writing an outline for her speech today at school. Nervousness was not even a part of the equation.

I’m thankful that my daughter is not prone to anxiousness or worry at this stage in her life. And I pray that as she gets older and experiences the life of giving bigger speeches, having job interviews, paying the bills, and even having children, that she learns that whenever worry is present, or she finds herself anxious, that it is something she can hand over to God in prayer.

God encourages His people not to be anxious, but knows that we probably will face things in our life that cause us to fret, and reminds us that prayer brings peace. I don’t know about you, but sometimes I need that reminder!

By the way…Alyssa’s team won their last game the other night! She was right. There was nothing to worry about! Way to go, girl!

Final game was to 15, but they had to win by 2...talk about a nail biter! ;)

Heavenly Father, and Prince of Peace, I pray that Alyssa and Kyle learn to trust you with all their hearts, and not lean on their own understanding, but in all their ways acknowledge You, and you will make their paths straight. I pray that when they are anxious about anything that they will learn that there is someone that they can entrust their cares to, and someone who hears their prayers. Thank you, for offering a peace that passes all understanding in all things when they are willing to lay our fears, worries, or concerns at your feet. Lord, keep my kids from worrying about things that You have under control, and let your peace reign in their lives.

Thank you, Lord, for Grandparents!

Today’s verse: “But from everlasting to everlasting the LORD's love is with those who fear him, and his righteousness with their children's children.” Psalm 103:17

Mexico 2009

Our household has been busy this last week, but it gives me many things to list on this “Thankful Thursday”. The biggest one being grandparents! My parents came for a visit this week so that they could cheer on Kyle in his baseball game, and root for Alyssa in her volleyball games. Not only do I love having some special time with my parents, but it gives me great thrill to watch them with my kids. Love shines on their faces. What a blessing for sure!

So today I’m celebrating my kids grandparents and list just a few things I want to give God thanks for today…

• Laughter abounds when Grammy & Papa are around! Stories, jokes, and pestering beyond belief. Playing together is one thing my kids will remember most.
• God shines in their lives and provides a good example of a beautiful faith in Christ.
• Encouragement and guidance flow from their mouths.
• Every birthday they travel from afar to celebrate their big day.
• Grammy’s story times will be richly remembered and are a part of passing on her faith.
• Being prayer warriors on my kid’s behalf will reap the greatest rewards.
• Their unconditional love is a precious gift.

Lord, what a gift you have given my children through their grandparents! I see you shining in their life, in the things they say and do, and the way they love my kids, and am so thankful for the example of faith they are. I pray that my kids follow in their grandparent’s footsteps every day of their lives. Thank you for grandparents who pray for their grandkids, and want to invest time in getting to know them, laugh with them, and love them. What a rich heritage my children are blessed with…a heritage of faith. I pray that their relationship together will always be one blessed with joy, laughter, encouragement, guidance, love, and forgiveness if it is ever needed. Lord, thank you, for the blessing of such special grandparents!

A Love Affair with God's Word

Today’s verse: “[God’s laws] are more precious than gold, than much pure gold; they are sweeter than honey, than honey from the comb.” Psalm 19:10

On Sunday, I had the joy of sitting next to my son Kyle in church. It doesn’t happen often because he usually chooses to sit by his friends over me. But this Sunday we had an epidemic of illness at our church and there just wasn’t any better choice for “sitting partners”. Having Grammy and Papa in town helped my cause too. As we sat through the service, and Kyle’s boredom took over, he pulled out a Bible and began reading. Oh, what a sight that melted my heart!

God’s Word is one of the most precious things in the world to me. I think I fell in love with it when I was in elementary school or middle school. I remember moving from my childhood Bible, into a more adult-like one, and loving the time it took to re-underline all of my favorite verses. I loved carrying it to church and using it when my Sunday school teacher, youth leader, or the pastor asked me find a particular verse. I loved the things I learned, and how it spoke to me about my life circumstances. I remember even taking my Bible to school, hoping I would have time to read it in my free time, or would have it available to share a verse or two with my friends. Yes, I was a “Bible Thumper”! My love affair with the Bible began long, long ago.

I pray that the Bible becomes one of the most precious things in the world to my kids too. I pray that it changes from just a book that sits on their shelf, or under their dirty laundry, to a “living and active”, life changing gift that they wouldn’t ever want to live without. I pray that God speaks to them through His Word, and they find treasures from Him that is a reminder of His deep and steadfast love.

I will totally love it if one day my kids start carrying their Bible wherever they go, or call me with a verse that spoke to them. I pray for the day that their love affair begins, and God’s Word becomes “more precious than gold” in their lives!

Bible Thumpers unite!

Your Word, O Lord, is better than life, and I love it! My heart’s prayer is that my kids fall in love with the treasures written for them in Your Word too. Place Bible teachers in their lives that inspire them to dig deeper, search for answers, and understand your direction and plan for them. Lord, when my kids make efforts to read your Word, open their eyes to see you, and their minds to understand what they’ve read. I pray that your Word comes alive to them, and they never take for granted what a priceless gift it is! Thank you, Lord, for the gift of your Word and the power it has in my life. May it be so with my kids. Let their love affair begin today.

The Cherry on Top

Today’s verse: “Friends love through all kinds of weather, and families stick together in all kinds of trouble.” Proverbs 17:17 (The Message)


Friends make life sweeter! Friends are the cherry on top of life! I give God thanks every day for the friends I have in my life. Friends bring a smile to my day, when other things seem be dragging me down. Friends make me laugh, care when I cry, and push me to be the best that I can be. Friends are a blessing beyond compare.

I pray for the friendships that my kids are building now. Some of the friends that they are making will last a lifetime. And some of their friends will hurt them somewhere along the way. Good friends will help them through the bad days, or encourage them to follow Christ in all that they do. Then there are other friends who may lead them down paths that pull them further from God. May God help them choose their friends wisely. And when the hurts come, because they inevitably will, I pray that God will heal their hearts, and help them live in a state of free-flowing forgiveness.

May my kids find friends that
…bring laughter into their lives
…help them make wise choices.
…encourage them when they are down.
…walk with them through thick and thin.
…forgive them when they’ve been hurt.
…push them to be better in school, in relationships, and in all of life.
…And last, but not least, draw them closer to God.

“A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg even though he knows that you are slightly cracked” –Bernard Meltzer

Precious Father, you are the greatest Friend of all, and I pray that my kids live their life in a continual state of building a friendship with you. May you use their friends to bless their lives, and to encourage them in their walk with you. I pray that the friends they choose will follow after you, and journey along with my kids as they live their lives for you. May my kids find friends who will build them up, make them laugh, and encourage them daily, and through thick and thin. Help my kids make wise choices about their friends, and wise choices WITH their friends. In turn, I pray that my kids become good friends, and treat their friends the way that reflects you living in their lives. May their friendships be a blessing!

Our Teachers

Today’s verse: “Similarly, encourage the young men to be self-controlled. In everything set them an example by doing what is good. In your teaching show integrity, seriousness and soundness of speech that cannot be condemned…” Titus 2:6-8

Mrs. Brekke...Kyle's favorite teacher....2nd grade 2005

My kids have had some great teachers over the years. I have to give God thanks for the teachers He has placed in my kid’s lives. I am reminded of teachers who have worked hard to help my kids work through their shyness, or struggles in math or reading. Or teachers who have sat and listened to me when I’ve had those “mother moments” of concern or worries. I am thankful for the teachers who were organized and prepared for teaching every day, and came to work looking forward to the day ahead. Or teachers who echoed Christ in their lives, and in their teaching, even though they are unable to be “out loud” about their faith. God has blessed our lives with special teachers.

Teachers have such a great impact on the students under their care, and they need our prayers. There are days that are hard, students that bring extra challenge, parents that bring complaint, schedules that are full and crazy…and in this season, lots of sickness coming through their doors. I’m praying for my kid’s teachers today in a mighty way!

A Prayer for Teachers (Author Unknown)
God of Love… Thank you for every teacher who notices a child’s special gift. Thank you for teachers who are listeners and gentle guides. Thank you for teachers who expect much and love enough to demand more. Thank you for the special teacher each one of us remembers.

God of Mercy… Sustain teachers who give everything they have and feel abandoned when society expects too much. Strengthen teachers who assume the blame for so many problems beyond their control. Help exhausted teacher’s rest.

God of Strength… Encourage teachers to care and inspire them to nourish. Motivate teachers to keep on learning for the fun of it and to make learning fun for children.

We wonder at teachers who know how to quiet a class of five-year-olds or help fourth grade girls be empathetic. We admire teachers who enjoy middle school writers, or teach physics or math or civics. We cannot even imagine how to help every single student achieve Adequate Yearly Progress. Bless the people who are expected to accomplish these miracles and who know how to comfort children when miracles don’t happen.

God of Justice… help our nation find a way to steward our vast wealth to support teachers in their special calling, wherever they teach and whatever the race or religion or gender or wealth of the children.

We pray these things in the name of our great teacher, Jesus Christ. Amen.

God our Healer

Today’s Verse: “Praise the LORD, O my soul; all my inmost being, praise his holy name. Praise the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits—who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion, who satisfies your desires with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagle's.” Psalm 103:1-5

Our household is fighting the sickies this week. And our church had many missing members on this Sabbath day, due to all the illness that has descended in our neck of the woods. Everyone you talk to seems to have someone in their family that is at home and in bed.

Despite this sickness we are hanging on to, I’m reminded and so thankful that my children were born healthy. I’m also thankful that they have never had any life-threatening issues that we’ve had to deal with. Allergies, colds, ear infection, have been our biggest foes. So much we need to give God thanks for!

We have a God who heals. He “heals the brokenhearted” and “heals all your diseases”. He longs for us to be whole and healthy, spiritually, emotionally and physically in every way. I pray for this physically healing over my kids today. I pray for the sniffles and coughs to go away, and for energy and strength to replace their weary bodies. But I also pray that God heals them in their “inner beings” (Ephesians 3:16), and that they continue to have healthy minds, strong spirits, and right emotions.

God be our healer today!…especially since this mom hopes her kids go to school tomorrow!

Lord, we are tired and weary. Our bodies are weak and need your healing. I pray that you touch us today and mend our achy bones, heal our persistent coughs, and make us strong and healthy for a new week to begin. Thank you that you are a God who doesn’t withhold your mercy and grace, but you desire to lavish it on your children. Lord, may we see the evidence of your work in our lives. We love you and praise you today! Thank you for being our healer, and our God!

Choose Christ

Today’s Verse: “If you confess with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord," and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.” Romans 10:9

Going to church doesn't make you a Christian
any more than going to the garage makes you a car
--Laurence J. Peter

Salvation is my greatest prayer for my children. Just because they have grown up in the church, or have parents who are pastors, it doesn’t guarantee that they will choose to believe in Him. One day they will have to choose for themselves whom they will serve.

And I pray that they choose Christ!

Lord, hear my heart! I pray that Alyssa and Kyle believe in you all the days of their lives. May the seeds that have been planted in their hearts and minds, by their parents, Sunday school teachers over the years, or their youth workers and friends, germinate into a lifelong love for you! I pray that the message of your Word becomes real to them, and they believe with all their heart that You the King of Kings and Lord of Lords. May they believe you are the Creator, the Forgiver of sins, and the Light of the world! Lord, may they look to you as their Savior! This is my greatest desire, and I'm sure your greatest desire as well. I entrust them to your care today!