Thankful Thursday: Reflecting on 2009

God's fingerprints were all over my year. There are definitely many things to give Him thanks for. The list may grow long, but it is in no way exhausting! I'm just wanting to shout Him praise!


January...After the heart-wrenching reality that part of my family believed that my PMS was more than a once a month experience, I went to God and He gave me a scripture to hold onto and pray on a daily basis..."Love is patient, love is kind." (1 Corinthians 13:4). Slowly I began to see God do a transformation in my heart and mind.

February...I had the chance to speak at my 5th Women's Retreat. I saw God's hand leading and guiding in beautiful ways, as I prepared for this weekend. God's message, through me, was used to speak to some ladies, and it was fun to hear their testimonies. I'm not sure where God is leading in this particular area of ministry, but I know that I am learning to be open to His plan wherever He leads.

March...Lyss, Kyle and I went and spent a few days at my sister's house, watching her kids with my mom and dad, while my sister was in Mexico (we missed you, Kip!). We had some rich family bonding time, a fun day on the beach, and made some fun memories with my niece and nephews. I'm so thankful for the wonderful kids God has given me. I know that He has great plans for their lives, and daily I am seeing His hand on their lives.

April...Women's Retreat is always a blessing, and a great way to kick off springtime. God always speaks in amazing ways to me during this time away, and this year was no exception. Kendall Tucker, our speaker, said that God gave her a Scripture just for me, and at first I was a little unsure as to why, but it soon became very clear. "The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom. He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak." (Isaiah 40:28-29). After an exercise, where we needed to go around our group and whisper in each ear, what we always wanted to hear our parent/s say to us, I was overwhelmed by the great need of the women in that room. I realized that that as pastors there was no way we could ever fill the needs, and help heal the hurts of all these women. There was only Jesus, and He will never grow tired or weary. Amen!

May...After months of planning and preparations for a family trip to Playa de Carmen, Mexico in June, our final payments were due this month. However, with a little investigating by our travel agent, we found out that the resort was offering some specials because of the swine flu outbreak. They needed to offer some incentive to get people to keep coming despite the threat of this illness. A phone call brought the good news that the both of our kids were going to stay at the resort for FREE! What a tremendous savings. God is so good! He even cared about our rest, recreation, and extravagant dreams.

June...Our trip to Mexico finally arrived. We stayed in a resort that was like nothing we've ever dreamed of. An experience of a lifetime for sure. We swam in the pool, visited Chichen-Itza, played with the dolphins, and ate until we were sick to our stomachs. In my quiet time one morning, God spoke to me in a beautiful way, reminding me that all of it was His gift to our family. "Open wide your mouth and I will fill it." (Psalm 81:10) Oh, we were opening our mouths all right!

July...A twelve week sabbatical from our church was full of rest, family memories, and precious times with the Lord. There were moments however, where we missed our church family greatly. Two things I learned: God is enough ("The Lord is my Shepherd, I shall not be in want." Psalm 23:1) to meet all my needs, and secondly, despite being the "pastor's kids" my children love our church. Being in ministry hasn't scarred them for life. God is so good.

And one more...Kyle's baseball team won the 12-year old Idaho State Baseball Championship. What glorious fun that was! We were on our way to Regionals with the hope of winning and going to the Little League World Series in Maryland. We did not win, but that was okay. The big "win" was a chance to teach my son that God was his defender. We struggled through this last baseball season with a coach that didn't seem to encourage Kyle, or use him to his potential. Kyle, not used to spending much time on the bench, spent most of the season a bit discouraged. As I was praying for him, and asking God how I could encourage Kyle, God gave me a message..."I will be Kyle's defender." You know, as a mom it's easy to want to fix all of our kids problems. Let me get a hold of that coach, man! After one particularly hard game, I was able to share with Kyle this scripture..."When they cry out to the Lord because of their oppressors, he will send them a savior and defender, and he will rescue them." (Isaiah 19:20)

August...This probably should go up in "May", but it was something that God continually spoke to me about all summer, and the closer and closer we got to coming back, the more urgent my heart felt about God's new calling in my life. It was a calling to pray...pray more for my children, for the youth of our church, and the youth workers who are called by God to minister to them. I became really concerned about the spiritual lives of our youth, and sensed an urgency to pray that God would get a hold of them in powerful ways. In June, God gave me a verse to claim and believe..." 'They will be mine,' says the Lord Almighty, 'in the day when I make up my treasured possession. I will spare them, just as in compassion a man spares his son who serves him. And you will again see the distinction between the righteous and the wicked, between those who serve God and those who do not." (Malachi 3:17-18) So, beginning in September, a group of people began to meet to pray. What a blessing that Sunday night time has been.

August 19th my dear hubby and I celebrated our 20th Anniversary! God has been faithful, and I feel richly blessed!

September...As I began making preparations for the new prayer time for our youth (YIPPS as I call it), God began to place another idea on my heart to help me pray for my kids in a more disciplined manner, and possibly help other parents to do the same. So, on September 19th, I began this blog. I've seen God do amazing things in my heart, answer prayers in specific ways, and make a difference in my children's lives. "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God." (Philippians 4:6)

October...This fall our Women's Bible study began going through a book called, "Me, Myself, and Lies" by Jennifer Rothschild. I really sensed God's leading to do this study and take some time looking at our "thought closets" and giving them a makeover. As we began this study and gradually got into His Word, I soon realized that there were some very discouraged and frightened hearts, and a few women who were ready to give up before they even got very far. One evening God gave me an idea for an exercise at the next study, and through much prayer and deliberation I decided to follow God's leading. That one day was a turning point, and totally one of the most powerful God moments in our study. Lives are being changed in amazing ways! Thursday mornings with these ladies are one of my most favorite moments each week.

November...In November, I headed to Newberg, Oregon for my first Administrative Council of the NWYM. I had no idea why God placed me on this committee. I couldn't figure out what I would have to offer. He's so funny. As we began our meeting times, we had some prayer and sharing time in order to get to know one another better. My heart just felt impressed to share with them about a woman I know, probably in her 60's, who has yet to accept Jesus Christ as her Savior. I so long for her to get to know Him in a personal way, and not miss another day with Him. After I shared my hearts cry, the people on this committee took some time to pray for her. What a holy ground experience that was for me. I know that this is one prayer God is going to answer one day.

December...The month full of beautiful reminders of His love for me. Oh, I feel totally blessed by God's provision to our family through other people. Who would have thought that the gift of new snow tires would bring such joy?! And that was just the beginning of surprise after surprise. God is good...all the time!

Lord, thank you, thank you, thank you, for your rich blessing in my life. Thank you for all the many ways I have seen evidence of your presence and activity in my life. I feel abundantly loved. Lord, you have been at work in my children's lives. I've seen your hand of protection, guidance, and blessing, day after day. I look forward to what the new year has in store for them, and for me. I give thanks to you, Lord, for you are good and your love endures forever. Let everything that has breath praise you!

Fall Afresh on Me

Today's verse: "You, however, are controlled not by the sinful nature but by the Spirit, if the Spirit of God lives in you. And if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he does not belong to Christ." Romans 8:9

All along the roads yesterday, from Grammy and Papa's house to home, we saw the beauty of God's creation. We often take the freeway through Washington and Oregon, but because we had to drop Lyss off in McCall for Midwinter Camp, we drove straight down through the state of Idaho. We saw a rafter (a new word for me) of turkeys, a couple herd of deer, and lots of snow. No snow on the road, thank goodness, but a beautiful white covering everywhere.

I especially loved the white frosting that covered the bare shrubs. Every limb and branch was touched by a layer of shimmery white frost. My dear husband, was thoughtful enough to pull over alongside the road a few times so that I could try to capture a picture on my cellphone. Unfortunately there was no way to capture the true beauty my eyes could see. Especially without getting out of my car, and walking up close, in the cold.

As we drove through the winter wonderland, and I thought about the beauty of those shrubs covered in frost/snow, a worship chorus came to mind...

Spirit of the Living God, fall afresh on me.
Spirit of the Living God fall afresh on me.
Melt me, mold me, fill me, use me.
Spirit of the Living God, fall afresh on me.

I want God's spirit to fall on me, and cover me with a fresh dusting of His Spirit. With the white covering of snow, you could still tell that the shrub was a shrub, but it took on a different look that had a radiance about it. As I (or my children) allow God's spirit to fall afresh on me, I will radiate of His beauty, and reflect Him and His glory. I just need to be open to the falling of His Spirit over me, and be diligent at spending time in His presence. In some ways, like the shrub, it just means being still, and allowing Him to do the changing.

I pray that as I allow God's touch in my own life, that not only will I be a better mom, but that my kids will see an example of what it means to be changed by the presence of God. I think that they are old enough to have seen some of those changes, and I give all the credit to God's Spirit living in me. What a glorious beauty that comes as we allow the Holy Spirit falls afresh on us.

Holy Spirit, fall afresh on me today, tomorrow, and each day of my life. Melt me, mold me, fill me, and use me. Your presence in my life is so sweet and I thank you for always being at work in my life. Lord, I want to shine with your spirit radiating in me, changing me in ways that glorify you in all that I say and do. Refine me, precious Lord. Fall on me today.

Innocent as Doves

My dear husband Ken is the author of today's blog and prayer. Thanks, babe, for praying for our children with me. I love you!

Today's verse: "I am sending you out like sheep among wolves. Therefore be as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves." Matthew 10:16

Yesterday I was struck by a contrast. Papa, Uncle Tim and I took the kids to a recreation center where we enjoyed a great afternoon of basketball and swimming together. Unfortunately, in addition to having a fun time on the waterslides and courts, we also found some very unfriendly and rude teenagers who seemed to make it their goal to attract attention to themselves with their profanity. At one point, our daughter felt made fun of and she wisely and quietly found another place to be. I’m so proud that Lyssa is such a strong young woman of faith. She feels no need to compromise what she believes in order to fit in with others. Reflecting on today’s experience, it’s sad and frustrating to be in a public place, especially when you’re with your kids, where others are so casually using profanity and rude humor. For many, this is simply a way of life and rudeness is equated with being cool and having fun.

Yesterday’s recreation center experience made me feel deeply thankful for my family’s version of fun. By contrast, I thoroughly enjoyed seeing our family together around the dining table last night playing “Apples to Apples.” In a day and age where so many are attracted to vulgarity, it’s refreshing to find raucous laughter (to the point of tears) around wholesome, good and clean family fun.

Heavenly Father, I pray that You will protect the innocent spirit of our children. I pray that they will always be very careful of what they choose to expose themselves to. I pray that they will crave purity and that their hearts will always be sensitive to and repulsed by unwholesome and unclean things. I know that in this world, they will be confronted by evil on a daily basis. Father make them wise and always alert to danger. Lord, I pray that our home, and their homes, will always be a refuge of moral strength, joy and innocence. Lord let them be as shrewd as snakes, and as innocent as doves.

Be Faithful!

Today's verse: "Be faithful, even to the point of death, and I will give you the crown of life." Revelation 2:10

Lord, thank you for the beginning of a new day. Thank you for the sunshine, for precious times with family, and for another day of life. For each breath we take, good health, freedom, and warm homes. A life so rich! I pray that my children will always live easy, conflict free, challenge-less lives...though I know that is completely unrealistic. But you know, a mom can ask. Lord, in the complicated moments of their life, I pray that my children will always remain faithful to you. I pray that they will always call on your name, seek you for wisdom and help, and represent you in a beautiful fashion. May they always call on your name, and stand for you when they face persecution of any kind. Lord, may my children always live true to their calling as your daughter and son. Every day, be close beside them, cheering them on in their faith and encouraging them to run their race strong and with great purpose. Dear Jesus, thank you for hearing my prayers.

Be faithful, my dear children, because God will bless you with the crown of life!

R-E-S-P-E-C-T

Today’s verse: “Show proper respect to everyone: Love the brotherhood of believers, fear God, honor the king.” 1 Peter 2:17

Celebrating that today is my 100th prayer post. Wowza. God has really worked on me through this process, and I’m finding wonderful blessings along the way. It’s so fun to watch Him answer some of the prayers I have for my kids, and I also know that there will be more answers to come in the future. He’s such a good God! So, I’m pressing on, and continuing to “parent on my knees”.

Several times my mind has turned to an incident I had while out Christmas shopping last week. I’m not sure why it keeps entering my thoughts, except that it was so flabbergasting my jaw keeps wanting to drop, and I want to call some kids’ mom! I can tell I’m becoming old when I want to say “what is this world coming to”??? It’s hard to believe that one brief moment is still plaguing my mind so many days later.

As I was exiting a parking lot, two teenage boys rode their bikes in front of me. I slowed down enough for them to cross safely, and then put my foot on the gas to continue on my journey, when all of a sudden out of the corner of my eye I noticed a third biker fly within a few feet of my front bumper. As I slammed on my brakes, the kid (who was maybe 13 or 14) stopped his bike and raised his hands in the air and began yelling words at me that I pray I never hear come out of my kid’s mouths. Hopping back on his bike, he yelled at me all down the parking lot, waving “the finger” high in the air. Excuse me?!?!

Even if it had been my fault, which it surely in no way was, the response of this young teenage boy profoundly shocked me. Where in the world have these kids been given permission to sass, cuss, and yell at the adults in their lives? If they can respond so rudely to people that they don’t know, how do they treat the moms and dads in their lives? Or their teachers? What will their response be to any authority figures they come across?

I hopefully have taught my kids well enough the importance of respecting the adults in their lives, whether they are adults they know or not. I pray that no other mother will wish they knew how to call me and inform me of my child’s rude behavior. May their respect be evident wherever they go, and to whomever they run into.

Lord, watch over the lips of my children, and protect their hearts and minds from hardening, and speaking out of anger or disrespect to others people in their lives. Guard their tongues from foul words. May your Holy Spirit always caution them when they are tempted to speak to others in an unkind or disrespectful way. Help me to be firm in my parenting, yet loving and respectful, to my children, so in turn they will know how to act and behave in a way that they shine you, dear Jesus. May the words of their mouth, and the meditations of their hearts always be pleasing to you!

Lessons from a Jedi

"Christmas Pancakes"

Today's verse: "I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want." Philippians 4:12

My Grandpa Wayne had a Christmas morning tradition when his kids were little, and on Christmas morning he would make the infamous "Christmas Pancakes." He would take whatever he could find in the refrigerator and add the treasures to some pancake batter. My mom remembers hot dogs, green beans, and all sorts of odd things that really shouldn't be found in this breakfast cuisine.

We had Christmas pancakes this morning, but Grammy is a bit nicer when keeping on with this family tradition. We had our choice of chocolate chip, banana, craisin, or plain pancakes. Oh, so yummy!

Our pancakes provided for a great spiritual lesson this morning, and as we were talking about it our 6 year old "Jedi in a Snuggie" summarized it well when he said...

"Take what you get and don't throw a fit!"

Contentment.

Gratitude.

Thanksgiving.


Life is full of "surprises", and sometimes we don't like the things handed to us. Like Christmas pancakes, life will sometime hold things unthinkable, and sometimes things that bring much delight. Our outlook and attitude is what makes or breaks us.

After the scripture, where Paul writes that he has learned what it means to be content in every situation, he writes "I can do all everything through him who gives me strength." (Philippians 4:13) WITH Christ, we too can find the secret of contentment, gratitude, and thanksgiving.

A good reminder, Jedi Luke!

Lord, our lives are rich and abundant, and we do not want for much. You have blessed us in numerous ways, and we have much to give you thanks for. However, in our humanness we still look to the things we are lacking, and we sometimes whine, complain, and continue seeking bigger and better things. Teach my children, dear Jesus, to "take what they get" and be content, whether it is with their worldly goods, or in their circumstances. Remind them to have thankful hearts, to speak with gratitude and kindness, and to be content in the moment. Lord, we are thankful for every good gift in our lives!

Merry CHRISTmas!

"Do not be afraid. I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is Christ the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger."

Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying

"Glory to God in the highest,

and on earth peace to men on whom his favor rests."

--Luke 2:10-14

Lord, thank you for giving us the most precious gift ever so long ago. We love you, and celebrate your birth today! Happy Birthday, dear Jesus!

Thankful Thursday: Christmas Edition

Christmas Cousins 2006

Alyssa has been trying to update my blog. It is still a work in progress. She created the new header using a picture she has taken. Keep looking for more changes. Thanks, Lyss!

Today's verse: "Sing to the Lord, all the earth; proclaim his salvation day after day. Declare his glory among the nations, his marvelous deeds among all peoples." 1 Chronicles: 16:23-24

On this Christmas Eve, I have much to give God thanks for.

• His Son, my Savior.

• His Word so alive and active in my life.

• My beautiful family...my dear hubby, beautiful daughter, and precious son.

• An extended family full of love.

• Friendships so dear.

• A church family who passionately lives for Jesus.

• Rich blessings from Him day after day.
  

So many things to give you thanks for, dear Lord. I am reminded, on this very special day, of the best gift I have ever received...a relationship with you. Thank you, for your presence in my life, from the first day until now. Thank you, for continually drawing me to yourself, and speaking to me in precious ways, helping me to understand the depths of your love and grace. Today, I will sing to you, declaring your glory to those in my world. May my children be drawn to you today, dear Jesus, and find their hearts seeking you. May they be reminded and aware that the reason we do anything at Christmas is you! Thank you, Lord, for your Son and his gift of life, love, and forgiveness. Let the birthday celebration begin!

Taming our Tongues

2007 Family Christmas Picture Attempt #???
As you can see we had a little trouble "taming the tongue" of the reindeer.

Today's verse: "Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing." Proverbs 12:18

Today is the 5th day of Christmas break. The kids are wanting to claim boredom, yet they know they'll get put to work if they do. The bathrooms are just waiting for one little slip of the tongue!

The other "joy" that comes from the kids being out of school, is how much fun they have together as sister and brother. NOT. They are best friends one minute, and worst enemies the next. Complaints are made that the other person eats too loud, talks too much, or is just plain "annoying." Words of irritation start flying everywhere.

I pray that they will soon learn the power of their words. Their words can build-up or tear-down, bring war or promote peace, and have the power to change moods, irritations, and relationships forever. Sisters and brothers can be friends and encouragers of the best sort.

"Kind words can be short and easy to speak,
but their echoes are truly endless."
--Mother Teresa (1910-1997)

Today I'm sure will be the beginning of kind and loving words between the siblings in this house. Hey, I can pray for that anyway. Our God is a miracle worker.

Oh Lord, this is the day that you have made, and I will rejoice and be glad in it! Be present with us in every moment, loving us, changing us, and making us more like you. Teach us, dear Jesus, to use our words wisely, and to be careful with how we speak. May our words be marked by your grace, peace, and compassion. Lord, teach my children the power of their words, and give them the discipline to hold their tongues and say only what is kind. I so want them to recognize that their words can be reckless and pierce like a sword, or they can bring healing and encouragement. Mark our lives with your presence, and help us to shine you in all that we say and do.

The Light of the World

Alyssa's first Christmas--1994

Today's verse: "I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life." John 8:12

Fifteen years ago we were in the midst of celebrating Alyssa's very first Christmas. Oh how time flies! What joy it was to celebrate this time of the year with a new little one in our home. I'm not sure she understood all the excitement, but her parents sure had fun.

One of the gifts we gave her on her first Christmas was a Glo-Worm. Remember those precious little creatures that had a light-up face when you squeezed it? I thought it was the perfect friend for my little girl.
I thought it would be a great bedtime pal. Glo-worm would offer just enough light in the midst of a dark night, that Alyssa wouldn't have to be afraid of the dark. A little light dispels great darkness.

Just like our Jesus. He enters into our world, and replaces the darkness with His light. He gives hope where there was once despair, peace in the place of fear, and makes beauty from our ashes. I pray that when my kids have days that may seem dark, they know to whom they can turn and find light.

For HE is the most wonderful light for a dark world...even better than that cute little Glo-Worm!

Lord, thank you for being the light of the world. What a beautiful promise you give your children, that whoever follows you will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life! A beautiful gift to take hold of and behold. Lord, forever be the light in my children's life. When they fight the darkness of loneliness, fear, or hurt, I pray they remember to turn to you for help in dispelling what they cannot remove on their own. Lord, always be their light, their hope, and their promise for beautiful things in their life.

Praying for Mom

Mother's Day 2008

Today's verse: "But I will sing of your strength, in the morning I will sing of your love; for you are my fortress, my refuge in times of trouble." Psalm 59:16

Lord, today as a mom I am singing of your strength. You are the One who gives me all that I need to be the mother you want me to be. I look to you, dear Jesus, for your guidance, wisdom, and arm of strength day by day. Today, I am also singing of your love. You love me with an everlasting love. You made a way for all people to draw near to you, and to have a personal relationship with you. My relationship with you is what drives me and gives me strength. Daily I sense your love, and it gives me hope, peace, and purpose, especially as I parent my children. Parenting is not an easy job, but with you Lord, I know that I will not only survive, I will thrive. Continue to be my strength each morning, my fortress and my refuge in times of trouble.

A Philippians Christmas Story

This is the scripture from today's sermon...the Christmas story as seen in the book of Philippians. Many things to ponder for sure. I'm going to let God speak to you in His own way, and personalize your own prayer for your children. Maybe soon I'll share my thoughts, but it's a powerful scripture all on its own and I don't want my own words interfering. Blessings...

Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus:
Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality
with God something to be grasped,
but made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant,
being made in human likeness.
And being found in appearance as a man,
he humbled himself and became obedient to death—
even death on a cross!
Therefore God exalted him to the highest place
and gave him the name that is above every name,
that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow,
in heaven and on earth and under the earth,
and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord,
to the glory of God the Father. (Philippians 2:5-11)

The Only Choice

Today's verse: "But if you refuse to serve the Lord, then choose today whom you will serve. Would you prefer the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates? Or will it be the gods of the Amorites in whose land you now live? But as for me and my family, we will serve the Lord.” Joshua 24:15 (NLT)

Salvation Saturday is here once again. My greatest prayer is that my children fall in love with Jesus and live their lives for Him. Above all the other prayers I have for them, this one far outweighs them all. That's why it gets its own special day on my blog.

Yesterday, we had to run to a nearby store in order for Alyssa to pick out a $5.00 white elephant gift for a Christmas party she was going to. I was soon brought back to memories of what it used to be like when I would give her a dollar and take her to the Dollar Store and let her have free reign on picking an item of her choice. Who knew that one dollar could cause so much agony and challenge her ability to make decisions? It was a mother's nightmare...then and now.

It gives me pause to think that if she has troubles making decisions in the Dollar Store, will she go through such indecisiveness when it comes to who and what she believes in? There is a smorgasbord of religions out there, and though her parents have chosen to believe in God, she is going to have to figure out for herself whom she is going to follow herself. (And if you know anything about teenage daughters and shopping with their mothers, it's that they often choose the total opposite thing that their mother would choose. Ha! So, praying this is different!)

My prayer is that this will be one thing that won't take much contemplation, and trial and error, to figure out that this is the best (and only) choice to invest her life in.

Jesus said, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." (John 14:6)

May the choice be an easy one!

Oh yeah, after leaving the store last night with the elephant gift that caused so much agony, we found out she needs another one for tomorrow. Oh my.

Lord, you know the cry of my heart, and the prayer that I have for my children. I long for my children to find the decision to follow you, the easiest and smartest decision of their lives. I want them to contemplate, study, and ponder this decision, so that it becomes their own, and they know without a doubt whom they believe in, and why. They have grown up in the church, hearing the stories, and knowing that God is an important part of our lives, but I pray that it takes on a personal flavor, and becomes a choice that they will press on towards, live for, and stand for against all else. May they choose this day whom they will serve, and may it be you, Lord, because you are the only way, the truth, and the life!

Bell Ringer Blessing

Today's verse: "Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me." Psalm 51:10

I shared a God-sighting last night at the dinner table, and my daughter suggested that it would be great for my blog. I thought it was cool that she knows I blog about my God experiences, and that I am praying for her in this way day by day. So here's my story.

Yesterday I made a quick stop at Fred Meyer and was blessed by an unusual occurrence. Across the parking lot I could hear someone singing at the top of their lungs. As I made my way to the front door I could see that the music was coming from the the Salvation Army bell ringer. Not ashamed of his message, his voice was declaring...

Create in me a clean heart oh God,
And renew a right spirit within me.
Create in me a clean heart oh God,
And renew a right spirit within me.

And cast me not away from Thy presence oh Lord,
And take not Thy Holy Spirit from me.
Restore unto me the joy of Thy salvation,
And renew a right spirit within me.

Written by Keith Green ©Sparrow Records

It was not the usual bell ringer. Nor was it one of the normal Christmas carols. However, I thought it was the perfect song for this season.

Restore unto me the joy of Thy salvation this Christmas, dear Jesus!

Lord, what a beautiful message the bell ringer was unashamedly sharing with the world. You are God, and you can create in us a clean heart, and renew a right spirit within me. I pray it be so, especially in this season. May your presence be always near, reminding me of the joy of your salvation. I pray that somewhere in the celebrations of the season, and in the retelling of the Christmas story, my children will become fully alive in the knowledge and understanding of God's gift in His Son Jesus Christ. May the old story be made new in their hearts. And maybe one day, they will be sharing with the world the good news at the top of their lungs, just like the passionate bell ringer. Oh, may it all be so!

Thankful Thursday: He is God

Today's verse: "He is before all things, and in him all things hold together." Colossians 1:17

Today, I am thankful for this fact. I am thankful that He is God, and I am not. I am thankful that, in Him all things hold together.

• My husband and I celebrated 20 years of marriage this summer.

In Him all things hold together.

• We are a family with two teenagers, and we still enjoy spending time together, laughing and chatting.

In Him all things hold together.

• We've been pastoring our church for 15 years, and are still loving it!

In Him all things hold together.

• We have a beautiful home, and I've been able to be a stay-at-home mom all this time.

In Him all things hold together.


In Him all things hold together.

Lord, I thank you that you are God, you are before all things, and that in you all things hold together. You are our awesome Creator, and you make everything beautiful in its time. As a mom, I am always trying to hold everything together, and do things in my own strength. However, you are God and I am not, and I can look to you for strength, wisdom, and hope as I parent, be a wife, minister, and just live day by day. You, Lord, are the glue that holds my marriage together, and keeps my family united. You are my strength, when I am weak. You are my hope, when things feel hopeless. You are my light, when the days seem dark. You are God, and in you all things hold together...even me.

Hoop Dreams

Today's verse: "Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously. Each man should give what he has decided in his heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver." 2 Corinthians 9:6-7

Last night, Kyle and I had an argument over a $3.00 "Darth Vadar Mini Indoor Hoop Set" that he found on ebay. It was just the thing that would make him the happiest boy on earth....for today anyway. Well, he didn't like the fact that I told him that he had to go on a spending freeze until after Christmas. Oh, the torture over the next 9 days!

"What if someone has bought you that for Christmas, Kyle?"

"Who cares. I can have two!" he says.

More is better at Christmas time. My kids begin thinking of all the things they want, and the list grows each day. Of course, I have noticed that as my kids grow older the lists have become shorter, but the items are more expensive. So, a basketball hoop that hangs over the door for $3, is a pretty cheap idea. Too bad my shopping is done for him!

My prayer, however, is that in this season my kids will find joy in giving, not just receiving. I pray that they learn the thrill of excitement over finding just the perfect gift for someone they love. I pray that they are drawn to give to others in need, or who can't afford the gifts at Christmas. May their thoughts be moved from their own list of wants and desires, to showering others with the blessing they've received from God.

May giving mark their spirits this season for "God loves a cheerful giver".

Lord, you have blessed our lives with so many good things. We are abundantly rich with all that we have. My kids don't know what it needs to be in want, or have needs that cannot be met. I thank you, Lord, for always providing and blessing our family. In this season, may we turn our focus from the things we want and hope for, and begin thinking about how we can bless others. I pray that my children's hearts find great joy when they begin thinking about what they can give to those they love...even when it comes to each other. May their hearts be full of gratitude and thanksgiving, and out of that internal joy, desire to shower others with blessing. I pray that they become lifelong, cheerful givers...giving to others out of what they themselves have received from God. Oh, what a sight to behold!

If You Want to, Dear Jesus

Today's verse: "Master, if you want to, you can heal my body." Jesus reached out and touched him, saying, "I want to. Be clean." Then and there, all signs of the leprosy were gone. Matthew 8:2-3

I laughed when I read this verse today because it's the exact words I would say to Jesus. "If you want to, you can heal my body!" It's just wrong to not feel great during the holidays. My dear daughter is home sick today, my hubby is hanging onto a cough from Thanksgiving time, and I woke up this morning with a sore throat and headache. No, no, no. There is too much to do, too many places to be, and it's supposed to be the happiest season of the year. Colds and flu do not fit into the equation in any way. So, today I am praying that God heals each of our bodies.

And I can hear God's response..."I want to!"

Lord, if you want to, you can heal my body! And if you want, you can heal the bodies of my family too. I have a faith like the bleeding woman who just reached out and touched your cloak, and you healed her. Take away the aches and pains, heal the coughs, colds, and sore throats, dear Jesus. Our health is something I am always giving you thanks for. We are blessed to not be dealing with any huge life threatening issues, and I don't want to take that for granted, but today it feels like this has been a long cold season. Be our healer today, dear Jesus.

God our Comforter

Today’s verse: “I will turn their mourning into joy. I will comfort them and exchange their sorrow for rejoicing.” Jeremiah 31:13b (NLT)

God is the great Comforter. At first, when we were focusing on that last night in our YIPPS prayer time, I struggled with knowing how that related to my kids. Besides the death of a great-grandparent three years ago, and the many hamsters, fish, turtles, and hermit crabs we’ve “laid to rest”, my children haven’t been faced with huge losses in their lives. For this, I’m truly grateful.

However, as we went to prayer last night, giving God thanks for being our Comforter, I was reminded that there are probably things in my children’s lives that need God’s loving touch and comfort. Some of those things I may be totally unaware of. Broken friendships, hurtful lies, feelings of worthlessness, rejection, or fear could all be on the list. And as they grow older, I’m sure that those feelings are intensified and can snowball into something “huge” in their minds, and they may not always know how to handle them. Unfortunately, so many youth turn to unhealthy things to fill this hurt in their hearts.

• Drugs & Alcohol
• Cutting
• Huffing (Inhalent Abuse)
• Premarital Sex
• Suicide

Here’s just a few statistics I found today...

• In the U.S., it's estimated that one in every 200 girls between 13 and 19 years old, or one-half of one percent, cut themselves regularly. Those who cut comprise about 70 percent of teen girls who self injure.
• Nearly 5,000 teenagers commit suicide each year.
• Suicide is the third leading cause of death among those aged 15-24.

The hurts must feel so great in order to get to this point of tragedy in a person’s life. I pray that my children never have something so great in their lives that they are moved to try one some of these things to cover up the feelings down in their hearts. I pray for God’s protection over them. At the same time, I ask for God’s guidance that I can be aware of the signs that may appear when my kids are hurting (because they will go through things that cause pain). If it won’t be me, I hope that there are other people in my children’s lives that recognize the signs of them crying out for help. They need to know how to go to God who showers His people with comfort, and can be the Healer of their deepest pain.

God is the only one who can turn their sorrows into joy.
Be their comforter, dear Jesus!

Lord, turn my children’s mourning into joy. Comfort them and exchange their sorrow for rejoicing. Protect them, dear Jesus, from things that will bring deep hurt and cause them to feel the need to go find relief and happiness in other things. They will have trials and tribulations in this world, but you can help them overcome each and every one of them. I pray Lord, that with each tear, they look to you for comfort, understanding, peace, and strength. May they find in you a listening ear, a compassionate heart, and the balm to their soul. Lord, help me as a parent to recognize the danger signs of deep wounds, and give me the wisdom to know how to meet their needs in those circumstances. Place encouragers in their lives that show them how to go you, Jesus, and lay all their cares at your feet. Lord, be their Protector, Comforter, Healer, and true Joy. For this I pray in earnest…Amen.

Christmas with Our Church Family

MFC Christmas Program 2004

Today's verse: "Shout for joy to the LORD, all the earth. Worship the LORD with gladness; come before him with joyful songs." Psalm 100:1-2

Dashing, dashing, dashing. Tis the season for dashing. We've had many church activities this week to help celebrate the season and the birth of our Savior.

The ladies gathered for a Christmas sock exchange.
An Advent Service.
A Junior High Youth Group Christmas party.
The Pastor's Christmas Open House.
The Children's Christmas Program (and it's rehearsals).
And we still have 12 days until Christmas! Take a deep breath.

As I reflected on what I wanted to pray about today, I thought of the joy I find in celebrating this season with my church family...even in the busyness. Part of the joy of this season, is being with those you love, and with those who also take great delight in rejoicing over the birth of Jesus. I've never celebrated Christmas without being a part of a church family, and I pray that my children never choose to either. I hope that they have many more Christmas programs, parties, and church services in their future, celebrating the reason for this beautiful season.

Two Little Angels, Natalie & Kyle, 2004

Lord, this season is all about you. The lights, trees, gifts, and activities all should be done in honor of you, and in gratitude for the gift of your Son Jesus. Than, you for the joy that comes in celebrating this season with a precious church family. Thank you for the blessing it is to worship you together. In the busyness, may we not loose our focus on the reason for this season. Lord, I pray that my children will find great delight in this season as well, and great joy in celebrating you through all the activites and events in our schedule. May they always remember that you are the center of this season, and never walk away from being a part of a church family of their own. I pray that you, Lord, are always a part of their lives, and of their Christmas celebrations for years to come. Lord, be ever near us in the coming days as we fix our eyes on you, the Savior of the world!

Pure, Clean, and Unblemished

I'm still in the process of figuring out all the reasons God asked me to do this blog of prayers for my kids. Not that I doubt the need to pray for them, but why can't I just do it the "normal" way? And then I see Him answer a prayer, and I realize that maybe He is just asking me to be more faithful and more specific when I pray. So, I will press on, and entrust my kids to His care "blog-style".

Today's verse: "Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red as crimson, they shall be like wool. If you are willing and obedient, you will eat the best from the land; but if you resist and rebel, you will be devoured by the sword." Isaiah 1:18-20

Today we woke up to another white skiff of snow. I love the way it looks before it's been marred by footprints or tire tracks. Pure, clean, and unblemished. It reminded me of the verse in Isaiah about our sins, though like scarlet, will become as white as snow. Pure, clean, and unblemished. God makes our lives new, and takes our sins and washes them away. We just have to believe.

The snow is a beautiful reminder to ponder and behold. When it becomes white outside, I will remember to pray for the gift of God's salvation in my children's life. When they believe in Him, He will make them pure, clean, and unblemished. Their sins will be forgiven and made white as snow.

Lord, I am loving the snow today. It's pure white beauty reminding me of your promise to make my sins as white as snow. Thank you for making me clean, washing my sins away, and filling me with your love and forgiveness. I pray that my children open their hearts to you, Lord, and believe in your forgiveness. May they trust you, and believe that you love them despite whatever they have done, but take their sins, make them clean, and love them abundantly. I pray that as they grow older, they hold on to your sweet gift of salvation. Lord, hold on tightly to my dear children, all the days of their lives.

A Dash to This and a Dash to That

Today’s verse: “He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength.” Isaiah 40:29-31

Right now, our son is participating in three sports teams. Basketball on a city team, basketball for his school, and his favorite, baseball. Whew. It makes me tired just thinking about it. We’re juggling practices on top of practices, and a game here and there. On top of that there is school, church, and of course the Christmas holidays.

So much busyness. Not only am I praying that we can survive it all, I am praying that we can thrive as well. I’m praying that while we are dashing from here to there, running to this practice or that activity, and trying to get everything done, we are still taking the time to enjoy this season, and the presence of Christ. This is the season of His birth, and I don’t want to miss the celebration and worship because of all the hustle and bustle.

Lord, give rest to the weary, and may we find joy in the precious times of worshipping and celebrating you this season.

Lord, you are my strength and my song. You are my hope, my joy, and my reason for living. This season should be one marked by celebration, worship, and even rest. In the busyness of Christmas, may we not forget to fix our eyes on you, our Savior. Be with us as we dash here and there, and remind us of our purpose and calling to shine you in all that we do. Help us to be a light to everywhere we go. May we not forget to treasure you as the greatest gift of all. As we hope in you, renew our strength! Thank you, Lord, for this day and all that it holds.

Thankful Thursday: God is Good!

Today’s verse: “Give thanks to the Lord, call on his name; make known among the nations what he has done, and proclaim that his name is exalted.” Isaiah 12:4

I love God Sightings! Each Thursday at our Women’s Bible Study we take turns sharing the ways we’ve seen God’s presence in our lives through the week. This week I have many to share!

• The kids had a great Bible Quiz meet at Twin Rocks Friends Camp on the Oregon coast. AND Kyle quizzed out three times! God is good.

• The beautiful snow came after the kids arrived home from their trip, and just in time for someone to give our family new snow tires for Christmas. God is good.

• Precious family moments around the dinner table…laughter included. God is good.

• God is changing women’s lives in our Women’s Bible Study as we go through “Me, Myself, and Lies” by Jennifer Rothschild. I especially love watching the women who have never been a part of a study like this before. God is good.

• Time with friends for my birthday reminded me of how blessed I am. My friends encourage me, love me, and help me on my journey as wife, mother, and follower of Christ. God is good.

• Ken gave a message at a local funeral home’s Christmas service for grieving families on Sunday. Afterward, he visited a woman who had recently lost her husband. The next day, we learned that she is a friend of someone who attends our church. Of the 200 people there, she happened to be the person he was most drawn to. Our friends have told her all about our church in hopes that she might visit. God is good.

• Our Sunday night YIPPS (Youth Intercessory Prayer Partners) group is finding many answers to our prayers. I love gathering with these parents to pray for our youth, youth activities, and our youth workers. God is good.

So many things to give God thanks for! He is good…ALL THE TIME!

Lord, I want to make known among the nations what you have done in my life. I want to proclaim and exalt your name, giving thanks for the evidence of your presence in our lives. God you are good, and I give you praise. Thank you for being present and active in my life, and showing yourself faithful day after day. Thank you for loving us, providing for us, and enveloping us with your grace. You are even doing things in my children’s lives, and I am in awe of seeing you at work. I pray that their eyes will be opened and sensitive to seeing the ways you are blessing them. Lord, may their hearts cry out with a heart of thanksgiving, because you are God and you are good…all the time!

A Dog Treat for Grizzly

Today’s verse: “Give generously to him and do so without a grudging heart; then because of this the Lord your God will bless you in all your work and in everything you put your hand to.” Deuteronomy 15:10

"The manner of giving is worth more than the gift."
~Pierre Corneille, Le Menteur

I love the times when I watch my children give to others, especially when it was their own idea, and out of their own resources. One of my favorite times was when Kyle was five or six, and he wanted to buy a dog treat for Grizzly. Now Grizzly was a dachshund that lived 8 hours away, at the neighbor’s house next to Grammy and Papa, and we were heading there for Christmas. Granted it was just a dog treat from the dollar store, but it was his heart that touched me above all, and I believe it blessed Grizzly’s family too.

Giving and sharing doesn’t always come naturally, but I’m praying that this Christmas I will see my children going above and beyond in the department of giving generously. It doesn’t have to be elaborate gifts, and using money that they don’t have, I just want it to be something from their heart.

Maybe it’s a good lesson for us all to remember. Giving is worth more than the gift.

Lord, oh I love this season of giving and celebration. Thank you for sending this world your Son, and giving us the gift of hope, love, and forgiveness. Like Mary, may we take time to ponder all these things in our hearts. Help my children really grasp the true meaning of this season, and take hold of your precious gift, and live their lives centered on you. Out of your presence in their lives, I pray that they find great joy in giving generously to others. May their hearts prod them to give to those that are in need, or to those they appreciate and love. May their focus this year, not be on what they may get from others, but what they can be giving. Lord, you are the ultimate gift giver and we delight in your love and blessing.

Quite a Stink

Today’s verse: “But now you must rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips.” Colossians 3:8

I have some great family memories from camping; from when I was a kid, and then when I had kids of my own. As a parent, I often wish that we had been better at fitting in times to take the family to the woods to make memories that my kids will remember for a lifetime as well. At least we have a few good memories!

One of the camping trips we went on, when the kids were little, wasn’t to the deep woods of a forest, but it was just outside the city of Lewiston, Idaho along the Snake River. When the kids were little it was nice to have a place with bathrooms and electricity, and be close to a town if we needed anything. I have many fun childhood memories camping at this park as well.

Even though this campground is close to town, it still felt like we were away from civilization and getting a “real” camping experience. We even had the opportunity to see some wildlife. Alyssa was probably about four years old, and she absolutely loved the family of skunks that happened to wander through our campground. How cute is a mama skunk and her two little babies? Oh my. In the daytime, we could watch them at a distance, but in the pitch black of night you had no idea where they were and how to stay clear.

Alyssa wanted to follow them, watch them, get a little closer, and hold one of those sweet little babies. Baby animals are so cuddly looking. It was hard to explain to her, that those precious little creatures wouldn’t be so “precious” if they decided to stink up the joint. Even baby skunks can make quite a stink.

The same is true with the words that come from our mouths. It only takes a few foul words, swearing or just unkind, to stink things up. Our words have the power to encourage or discourage, to build up or tear down, and the moment we speak someone can decide if we are friend or foe. Our words are a reflection of what is in our heart, and it only takes a little “stink” to overpower, infiltrate, and impact someone else’s heart, and prove that ours is in need of some serious cleaning up.

I pray that the words of my mouth, and the meditations of my heart, be pleasing to Him!

And I pray that the words of my babies mouths, and the meditation of their hearts, be pleasing to Him as well!

Lord, thank you for the reminder of the power of our words, and the things that come from our mouths. With our words we can worship you and give you glory, or we can bring shame and dishonor. From the lips of children and infants you have ordained praise. Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones. Please help rid my children of anger, rage, malice, slander and filthy language from their lips. Lord, open our lips, and our mouths so that they will declare your praise.

Children of Light

Our home decked in lights

Today’s verse: “For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light (for the fruit of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness and truth.” Ephesians 5:8-9

One of the things I love most about Christmas, besides celebrating the birth of Christ of course, is all the lights. I love them on my Christmas tree, and I love them all over the outside my house. I love driving around and seeing all the lights. Lights, lights, lights…there can’t be enough lights!

Lights dispel the gloom of darkness in this cold season with short days. The lights fill us with hope and joy during this festive season. The lights beautify and brighten everything they come in contact with.

When I look at the lights all around me, I am reminded that Jesus is the true light of the world. He dispels the darkness and fills us with hope, peace, and truth. And when Jesus lives in us, we can live as children of light, showing Christ to the world around us. I pray that my children will always live as children of light.

I pray that they shine light…

• to the lonely kids at school
• to their teachers
• to their hurting friends
• to the poor and needy
• to our neighbors
• to those who don’t yet know Jesus
  

It reminds me of an old children’s Sunday school song…

This little light of mine, I'm gonna let it shine
This little light of mine, I'm gonna let it shine
This little light of mine, I'm gonna let it shine
Let it shine, Let it shine,
Let it shine

Lord, you are the light of the world. Thank you for dispelling darkness, bringing hope, and filling us with truth and love. Your light lives in us, and in turn we can shine your light to others. Lord, may my kids live as children of light, and have lives that consist of goodness, righteousness and truth. Use my kids to be light in a world that desperately needs you. Teach them to shine your light to the lonely, hurting, angry, unloved, and may not know the hope you have to offer. I pray that they find the tenacity to let their light shine before men, in all that they say and do, and through all the days of their lives. Thank you, Jesus, for being our light, and the light of the world!

Givers and Takers

Today’s verse: “Give generously to him and do so without a grudging heart; then because of this the Lord your God will bless you in all your work and in everything you put your hand to.” Deuteronomy 15:10

The Christmas season is upon us. Thanks to my dear husband, we have the lights up outside. Sometime this week we will need to be putting up the tree, decorating the house, and finish the baking for our open house. Whew. After that we’ll get the Christmas cards ready to send out, and the gifts bought and wrapped. It’s beginning to look, and feel, a lot like Christmas!

For a moment, our Christmas spirit was dashed last Friday evening. We came home and found tire tracks running through our lawn, aimed right at our big blow up Christmas snow-globe. This is a treasure that Ken and the kids found at a garage sale a few years back. Their prized possession now has a couple of holes in it, but no other major damage. Still, however, my mind couldn’t comprehend the thoughtlessness and rudeness. Would someone really go around trying to ruin other people’s Christmas decorations? The nerve. Go spread your bah-humbug somewhere else please.

On the other hand, that very same day, we were abundantly showered by someone’s generosity to our family for Christmas. It was so generous and giving, that when I think about it, my mind can hardly comprehend someone being so kind to another person that isn’t even family (And yes, the family of God is a real and precious thing too!). I wish I knew how to adequately say “thanks”, but I continually lift them to God, giving Him thanks for their blessing, and hoping they know the depths of our gratitude.

There are “givers” and “takers” everywhere. Takers must be an unhappy lot of people. Maybe they are even missing the presence of the Savior in their life. They have forgotten to be kind, grateful, and respectful to the people around them. Givers, on the other hand, put others ahead of themselves. They give out of their abundance, and the joy that lives in their hearts. Givers show love in so many ways, and show Christ’s love to the world around them.

I pray that I am a better “giver” this holiday season, and better yet, in all of life. More so, I pray that my kids will be givers, and not takers, in their homes, with their friends, in their church, and out in the world. Giving is what God calls us to be about. After all, it reflects His very being. God gave us His Son…and there is no greater gift!

Lord, what a profound lesson I learned this weekend. Thank you, that you can be seen even in the moments of my life that don’t seem so lovely. Thank you for blessing us with special people in our lives. They shine you so evidently, and give sacrificially in such beautiful ways. Thank you for the reminder that I want to be more giving, and show your light to those around me. Lord, bless the givers in my life. At the same time, help me to be loving, compassionate, and forgiving to those around me who aren’t so loving in their actions and words. Help me to be understanding, when I am hurt or offended, and show them Christ-like love. I pray that my children will learn to be givers, and not takers, and shine you in all that they say and do. May they show kindness, humility, compassion, and respect to the world around them, showing that you live in their lives. Holy Spirit, show them opportunities and ways to be giving even in this season. Thank you, Lord, for being the ultimate example of a giver, and sending the world your Son, so that we may have eternal life. That is a gift truly worth celebrating this Christmas season. I love you, precious Savior.

Just Believe

Today’s verse: “I ask you again, does God give you the Holy Spirit and work miracles among you because you obey the law? Of course not! It is because you believe the message you heard about Christ. In the same way, “Abraham believed God, and God counted him as righteous because of his faith.” The real children of Abraham, then, are those who put their faith in God.” Galatians 3:5-7

My kids are off at the Oregon Coast today, enjoying participating in a Bible Quiz meet at Twin Rocks Friends Camp. They’ve memorized some scriptures, and practiced their questions over and over, all the while planting the seeds of Scripture in their heart. I’m praying not only for their safety and fun this weekend, but that the things they are learning and the message they hear about Christ today, is impressed on their hearts forever.

The message I hope they hear and believe is this…God loves you. It doesn’t matter what you’ve done, if you just believe in your heart, and confess with your mouth Jesus is Lord, you will be saved. You don’t have to be perfect. You don’t have to be “good enough”. You just have to rest in His goodness and love. Oh, thank goodness.

So many people live in the fear that they have not lived their lives for God, and that their pasts are so dirty and ugly, that God could not possibly ever love and forgive them. They fear that God would never want them as His child, which is so far from the truth. If my own children were to do something that doesn’t please me, I may be sad, disappointed, or angry, but I will always love them. No matter what they do, they will always be my children. This truth is even more evident in our relationship with our Heavenly Father. He just asks us to believe.

So believe, my dear children. Just believe.

Lord, be near my children today. Walk with them, talk with them, and tell them that they are your own. Impress on their hearts the Words that they have studied and memorized. Help them consider the truth of what they have learned, and how it applies to their lives. May your message be clear to them today, like no other time, that you love them and you are God of this world, and Savior of their heart. Father, may their hearts believe, and may they confess with their mouths that you are their Lord. If there is fear in the hearts, worry of your possible unforgiveness, or feelings of inadequacy to be your child, I pray that you dispel those misconceptions, and fill them with your truth, love, and forgiveness. May they never walk away from you, and your best plan for their lives, and may they always believe in you, dear Jesus. For this I pray today, and forever. Amen.

Uniquely Gifted Rewards

Today's verse: "Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him." Psalm 127:3

I love to watch the progression of these pictures. Watching each face individually as I scroll down. It only took a matter of seconds to snap these shots, and it tells a bit of a story. Kyle obviously couldn't believe the goofiness of his sister. But what's new? If I could put words in his mouth,with the roll of his eyes, he was probably saying "GIRLS!!!!"

My children have such different and unique personalities, each playing a special part in our home. These pictures show this fact pretty well, don't you think? What a gift they each are! So fun, full of spunk and spit, and each a treasure in their own right. I pray that they both take hold of those wonderful personalities, and live in the giftedness that God has given them. As a parent, I want to encourage them each to strive in their strengths, and fall in love who God has created them to be. I pray that they don't ever look down on themselves, but relish in their precious uniqueness.

Because who God made them to be is so beautiful to me! They truly are a gift from God!

Lord, I pray that my children know and believe how wonderfully they are made. You have gifted them each in different ways, yet both reflecting different parts of you in their lives. I pray that they each enjoy their differences, and strive in their giftedness. May they never doubt how beautifully they are created, and always believe that they were made for a profound purpose. At the same time, I pray that they remain humble and live their lives solely to represent you, Lord, Thank you for the precious gift of my children, and how beautifully you've made them. Oh, what a reward!

Thankful Thursday: God's Deep Love

Today I am thankful for God's deep love. Oh how He loves me, and oh how He loves my children. I pray that they come to know and live in the amazing truth of that fact. Sometimes the love of others is fickle, and it comes and goes based on whether we are "good enough" or not, but God's love is unconditional, everlasting, and beyond abundant.

How sweet the love of God is!

“I will not forget you! See, I have engraved you on the palms of my hands.” --Isaiah 49:16

"I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with loving-kindness.” --Jeremiah 31:3

“I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.” --Ephesians 3:17-19

"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” --John 3:16

“How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God!” --1 John 3:1

“The life I live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.” -- Galatians 2:20

Precious Father, what an amazing thought that you love us this much. You gave up your Son on our behalf, so that we might find eternal life with you. I pray, that my children will be rooted in your love, and that they may have the power to grasp how wide, how long, how high and how deep you love for them is. When they feel unloved, I pray that they can find the truths written in God's Word that speak volumes of love. When friends walk away, or don't act in love, I pray that they can lean on a Savior that will never turn His back on them, nor remove His love for them. May your promises live in their hearts and minds, forever and ever. Thank you, Lord, for your deep, deep love.